My ex boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend after a couple months of dating then a few weeks after he told me he was unsure. Yet he still wanted to stay with me. I stayed and we got into our first argument. He had serious trust issues with me and I got overwhelmed with it. I put it aside and still asked him to go to my friend’s party. Then when we went to a party together I seen him staring at another girl and I thought, how could he have so much trust issues with me and he’s literally starring at another girl. I confronted him about it and he got furious with me, I tried to calm him down and apologized but he left me in the car and I started to cry.
he broke up with me the next day over voice memo, and came and got his things. We never got to talk. I gave him space (4 days) but I later seen he was on a dating site again. I called him and we talked and it didn’t go over well. He told me he just didn’t want to be in a relationship. He wanted to still be friends but I told him I can’t be his option. I finally cried and asked how could he walk away so easily and he hung up on me and blocked me.
i feel humiliated bc the next day I called from my other number and we talked for 10 min, because he said he had something to do. He was still super rude to me but I was calm. He told me if I wanted to talk, text don’t call and hung up. When I went to text him a few hours later, he had me blocked. I got so upset I called off my what’s app number twice and left a voicemail and sent him text asking that he treated me with more respect and he blocked me again. I feel like a lessened my value bc I did that. I am trying so hard to get over the fact that I begged and made myself look foolish to someone who hurt me and could care less about it.
How to get over humiliation of begging your ex not to leave?
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Guess what, we all have these times at least once. I think it is great that you are self-evaluating what happened and why. Do allow yourself room for mistake without being too harsh on yourself or him for that matter.
He seems like he is not ready for a relationship with anyone at this time. This is unfortunate for you both but probably a blessing in disguise. Any guy that would gawk at another woman in your presence is not someone that you want around anyway !! Hang in there and work through but the has to be a higher quality person out there more deserving of you... this guy was not a keeper.
We all have looked foolish or desperate at times. You need to allow yourself mistakes like you would others. Just forgive yourself and move on to someone who will appreciate it.