Guys, how would you react to a love letter from a girl you barely know?

[Anonymous]

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You know the girl, are friends but aren't much close yet

[burlen]

Receiving a love letter from someone you barely know can be a confusing and overwhelming experience. Here are some steps you may consider when reacting to a love letter from a girl you barely know:

Take some time to reflect: Before you react, take some time to think about your feelings and what you want to say. Consider whether you have any romantic feelings for the girl, and if not, whether it is appropriate to continue the relationship.

• Be honest: If you do not have feelings for the girl, it is important to be honest with her. You can let her know that while you appreciate her feelings, you do not feel the same way and do not want to lead her on.

• Be kind: No matter what your response is, it is important to be kind and respectful. Remember that the girl has taken a significant risk by expressing her feelings for you, and it is important to acknowledge that.

• Consider the future: If you do have feelings for the girl, consider how you would like the relationship to develop. Think about whether you are ready for a relationship and what that would look like.

• Communicate your feelings: Whether you have feelings for the girl or not, it is important to communicate your feelings clearly and directly. You can write a response to the love letter or have a conversation with her in person or over the phone.

Reacting to a love letter from someone you barely know requires careful consideration and a sensitive approach. It is important to be honest, kind, and respectful, and to take the time to think about your feelings and the future of the relationship.

[Heolurt]

If this ever happened to me, I'd think it was a prank and if it wasn't, well I'd be wondering what kind of person could ever like someone so ugly like me, what is wrong with her that she has to drop her standards so low that she's reaching below the muck for a guy. I'm not worth it, I know this, I've been told this my entire life, it can't just change.

[JamesDiaz11]

If she was pretty I'd be flattered and probably give her a chance. If she was not then I'd probably be awkward about it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hopefully he will give you a chance. :)

Anything can happen, though. So be prepared for either answer. And please don't let it affect your confidence or self-worth if he says No. He's only one guy.

[mobiusforniner]

Quite flattered, actually. Even if i dont have feelings for her, id at least be appreciative of her effort

[blueonblack22]

Well the girl better be mentally prepared for the worst case scenario all considered.

[Ligerzzero]

If I’m attracted to her, that would be great, and a good chance to go on a date with her.

[exitseven]

I don't know. Either ignore the whole thing or have a serious conversation about it

[driven159]

If I got one too soon it is not a good sign the faster the love comes the faster it goes so would have to slow things down

[Slay256]

I would definitely write back to her. I can just say thank you for the letter, and try to befriend her.

[Pohjolan]

I'd suspect its fake but confront her about it anyway.

[ashish804]

may be a good opportunity to understand and bang her

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“Have you come to surrender?”

For real though, I would have a brain aneurysm

[In_Trance]

Cringe
If you don't know one another there's no way you love

[SnowedIn]

I'd be flattered and happy.

[TheVigilantFox]

I’d probably just laugh about it and move on.

[boggboss]

Probably wouldn't care about it

[Chad345]

I'd be flattered.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’d get to know her more.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Id be flattered and give it a shot.

[Guardian45]

If she's under 21, NO THANK YOU!

[TallAnon]

Depends how she looks