Guys.. I just confessed to my crush through a letter.. I'm bit scared that he might find it annoying or strange.. I just want to know how would guys feel in general l if they receive a letter like that...
It depends on many things.
Is he interested in her, or at least, is he open to being interested in her? If no, then it's probably just going to be uncomfortable. If yes, then he still has to decide if he's going to take it at face value and believe it's real, OR if she's just playing him and setting him up to be taken advantage of. And, yes, that really happens sometimes.
Then you need to consider his own morals and values. Some guys may have no feelings, but might try to take advantage of her anyway. I of course don't know how much you might have vetted this guy, but that's something to keep in mind.
I'd appreciate regardless of how I felt. It's hard to put yourself out there and you should be proud for having the courage. Most girls don't ever do it and leave it up us. Most men have to deal with getting rejected from an early age, so we know how tough it is to put yourself out there.
Even if he doesn't respond well, realize you did the best and just wasn't it. Don't get discouraged, it's a W for trying.
m ig many would find it funny cuz no one do that anymore unless u r from japan
Maybe they feel flattered or that it’s cute.
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I would enjoy it even if I was not interested, it's rare to find a girl willing to make a move like that. It's so rare most, not all, guys would like it. Guys almost always have to make the first move otherwise nothing happens for them.
No idea. Most times I would think its just a prank or the girl not being serious, as people have played with my feelings a lot in the past. So me personally I would just ignore the letter and go on with my life as its probably just another joke.
It really depends. I've only received one in my life an it was very... uhm, descriptive.😆 She talked like we had known eachother for years. And I had no idea who she was. I didn't even know the name. I honestly thought she was mentally ill. I don't think it would have been creepy if I'd known her.
You fired the bullet already so to speak so I wouldn't stress about it. Any DECENT guy is going to be flattered by it even if the feeling might not be mutual.
I believe there just isn't a guy out there who wouldn't like a letter from a girl confessing her love to him. Honestly I always love and cherish every letter my girlfriend gives to me
I'd find it endearing. I'd either accept, or tell her to wait and see because not enough time has passed getting to know her, or politely reject.
Did we slip back to the 1980s when I wasn't looking?
To be fair I was a bit young back then to really appreciate the culture... but I used to love watching Thundercats.
No idea never received one but I suppose if it was genuine I'd be flattered at the very least.
I would react to it in a positive manner.
Like she's a child. Just tell them
Complimented but awkward potentially.
Id be stoked as long as I found her attractive.
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