Am I pathetic for desperately wanting guys to like me?

[Anonymous]

I never had any boyfriends, not even one. I had one guy chasing me and that was it. Three crushes, none of them liked me back. The guys I didn't like never liked me either. My friends receive attention and DMS from guys every two to three business days while I receive nothing in years. My ears ring up in jealousy any time anyone acquire romantic interest from a guy. Is it because I'm still the ugly horse with big lips everyone in elementary and my mom used to tell me? What is it about me that is so unappealing to guys? Why wouldn't they like me? But I got braces and I look much better now ( according to people) why am I still alone with no prospect of love? I know I'm pathetic for this but It's really frustrating to see all my friends experience something I could never have. I wanna know what that feelings feel like too. I want what they have too. Why can't it happen to me?

[ChicoFromThe305]

It can, it's not predictable if that's the only thing that will give you hope, you just gotta be patient, and let go of enviness and jealousy, be happy for your friends and you'll see doors will open up for you too, keep positive, it's actually more unlikely that you end up alone than ending up with someone, even if it's just speaking about relationship experience.

[boggboss]

How would anyone be able yo answer why guys are not attracted to your without knowing what u look like

[Asker]

Search up T_treeoil if you don't mind

[boggboss]

Huh where on what

[slatyb]

You aren't pathetic, just understandable lonely. Counselling might help you improve your self-image.

[Berethor]

You said that one guy was chasing you, why you did not dated him if you so desperate?

[Asker]

Well I was not desperate back then, and I didn't like him he wasn't a good guy either. This has only been a problem these past two years

[Berethor]

I see, well if you was not anonymous then maybe you would met someone on GAG.

[jeremy_09]

You are definitely pretty enough so that's not the problem.

[jahaims]

You are so painfully shallow you are barely a person

[Asker]

Well if only you'd be more empathetic than this. I don't what you went through in the first 19 years of your life jahaims but I know for sure you didn't go through what I do rn, and that's good for you. But why don't you at least try putting yourself in my shoes for just a little bit?

[jahaims]

I'm not a moron so I wouldn't be in your shoes.

[Asker]

Okay bitter jahaims how about you take a hike and carry on with your life (or maybe kys or sum idk🤷🤷)

[OtterMan68]

not pathetic, just insecure

[Asker]

I guess so

[riverrat3]

Everyone wants to be liked

[Anonymous]

Yes, because it will chase guys off.

[Asker]

Could you elaborate?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys want to be the one making all the effort.

[Asker]

Well none of them is making any efforts

[Opinion Owner]

Then wait till they do, or move onto other guys.

[Anonymous]

A little bit yeah.

[Anonymous]

Just u didn't get ur turn