My question is how do you see G@G dating advice having been reduced to zero?

[TheSimFans]

Have you seen the lack of advice on dating & relationships? I did post and did say in my question that I was seeking helpful advice and nothing else. However, I didn't receive any advice so I deleted it. Because what's the point of giving a user a mind if they don't have any useful advice? I have yet to find a new boyfriend. Still stuck in the middle of not getting anywhere near my goal of getting a new boyfriend. Yes, I even asked guys out, but they rejected me and said I had a girlfriend. Even tried online dating. Can match multiple men, but stuck in the middle. I'm getting a bit sick of not getting what I want but always receiving the opposite response. II always seem to attract guys who aren't in my age range that aren't the type of guys that I'm looking for. I want a guy looking for a serious relationship. So far, nothing has happened. It is impossible for me to predict what will happen. That is one of those bullshit excuses. It does not work for me. Yes, I have had some unpleasant experiences with previous relationships and friendships. I have been cheated on more than one occasion in previous relationships. Been cyberbullgirls. Beene girls. Been bullied by some girls. Trusted girls used my trust to tempt my previous boyfriends to cheat. In my opinion, college is the worst place to find a serious relationship. My college was is special learning disability college.

[inhua]

the problem with dating advice is that there is no one rule that fits all. everybody insists that a blanket statement advice should work for anyone when it only works for some and doesn't work for others. to get the best dating advice possible, the asker must give full context and details to their situation

for example one of the most frequently asked questions on GAG is "How to get girls?"

most people giving dating advice would say just approach, just be nice, just be yourself just be confident and just vibe etc. however if the asker looks like this. would such advice work? obviously not.

let's vibe

the advice this asker would probably get is fix your teeth, fix your hair, fix your face, fix your looks in general and then follow the previous advice

[inhua]

at the end of the day, dating advice is all about selfishness so it doesn't really matter anyway

[TheSimFans]

Yet it hasn't been fixed. My issue that i didn't have in college college but was lots of bad apples. None of dating. Is wasn't advice just opinion seem only to getting a a lot.

[inhua]

everybody has their own dating problems to deal with. while you're worrying about not attracting an attractive guy and attracting unattractive guys, the unattractive guys who you've rejected are worrying whether or not they'll die alone. the bullying and cyberbullying is bound to happen in a society that's all about selfishness, not selflessness. we all want what we want and sometimes what we want doesn't happen.

[TheSimFans]

I'm not even in college so. I got less of a chance of dating. Since I saw I can't get anywhere near my goal but didn't have any issues with college it was after college when issues did start.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm in the same boat and cannot get advice on how to find my type either. It is very hard to give me advice because of how niche I am, and its very frustrating to deal with.

Good advice for one person is often bad advice for another, so I think the biggest problem is finding relatable people to ask. Unfortunately that takes an uncertain amount of time.

[TheSimFans]

Yep I even looked on web but so far I come a cross a learning disability charity online form. Nothing on my town is on in city.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The odds of anyone's match being in their city is extremely low, like less than 1%

[Stressyalaire]

Not zero, but many aren't in a relationship and are still dating, maybe that's the issue.

[TheSimFans]

I see tons of users in rwl relationships on here but none at all. Still hasn't fix anything.

[Stressyalaire]

I'm sure that we look at questions per topic we'll find some advice in there. I learned we can filter on topic!

[TheSimFans]

I. Did flitter and still nothing.

[serious]

Well it seems you have a tough life. I don't know what I can say, it also seems to me that you are doing your bit, you are trying and doing the right thing. In that case it seems you just have bad luck.

The say fortune favors the brave so if you are doing the right things then you should continue doing that, if not now at some point fortune will always favor. You never know when you can come across that guy who will give you what you want.

Wish you good luck.

[TheSimFans]

So far I have not been on any guts since I kept meeting assholes , rude, bossy and guys over age. That I did put on profile and still zero. I don't think that will. I have to try. Just been texting one but he has also been busy and he did let me know about it. All the other guys didn't let me know. Just ghost me. Asking guys out doesn't work.

[serious]

@thesimfans

I understand. Don't let few bad experiences stop you.

[TheSimFans]

That's how most guys were part of one guy. I experienced one guy that did lie about being single but did block him. Since I found out he has a girlfriend through snapchat stories. This is why I don't like snapping at that. Girlfriend is one of them crazy. Keep messing me over and over again. Guys that I'm texting are from near my town. I got a similar birthday.

[serious]

@thesimfans

"That's how most guys were part of one guy. I experienced one guy that did lie about being single but did block him. Since I found out he has a girlfriend through snapchat stories."

Yes of course. Women totally dislike lies and dishonesty in a man. They never want a man who lies to them, even if they are just friends.

For a woman it is very important that the man is honest and straightforward so that they know they can trust the man.

[TheSimFans]

I'm OK with guys saying that in open relationships since I just passed them on. I am also not interested in having an open relationship. Just serious relationships without any being married since I don't see the point of being married to. I also had lots of girls called creaps for older guys. My face looks like a 14-year-old since I got a baby face. I attract guys that I very much pass 30+70 80. I put age range 19 to 27 but still get older guys. One guy disabled dating, I know you said looking for guys near my age but I don't act my age 30. That is not how to attract a girl. That is being an immature man child that I don't want. One guy that I was texting was not the same one. Met dating app. He was the one that let me know he was busy with work. Other guys didn't. I'm ok if the guy let me know. The guy that has a similar birthday to each other. The only one that he is looking for serious relationships after I said first and he did ask questions and did get know. Is ok with going slow.

[SnowedIn]

I don't know that it's zero. You asked a question that is very, very, very, very, very specific to your unique situation and needs. A good question and valid question but one that very few people on GaG would have the expertise or experience to answer or even guess at.

[TheSimFans]

Yet I didn't get anything on my question .

[TheSimFans]

None on my all my questions .

[SnowedIn]

My point is that no one has the experience to give you an answer. You talk of dating sites for those with learning disabilities and special college for learning disabilities -- those are areas of experience that I don't think many (? any?) folks here have experience with. And so they can't answer.

[TheSimFans]

None of any user has answered none , I'm not even you. Not your point. You just prove my point of G@g is zero advice.

[WaterIsland]

1 post that didn’t get replies = advice has been reduced to zero? Ok then…

[TheSimFans]

No. Is all them. Zero.

[WaterIsland]

Well I know for myself I’ve tried to give some advice. I do try to focus on questions where I have a solid perspective. Sometimes dating advice can be: “I don’t know”, and I don’t think that would be a valuable response, so I don’t reply to situations where I don’t know. So much of it is about circumstance and feeling, as opposed to logic, which makes advice difficult sometimes. I don’t agree that it’s been reduced to zero tho. Feel free to message me or something and I’d be happy to give whatever advice I can tho.