That I'm not enough.. How I get over it?

[n8765]

Ok, I'm in bumble, and I see guys much over my league and I feel embarrassed even to dream to have with someone something serious...
I'm very not educated, no financially ok, not mentally ok and so on.
But I expect just loyalty , sweetness, respect, simple attention, honesty and time.
But I guess no one see me like this.. and not need it... from those smart well manners guys...

I don't know what to think and do.

And about app... I just skip them because they too good for them... and I seem like a simp

[MaazHussain]

It's important to remember that nobody is "out of your league." Just because someone might have more education or financial stability than you, it doesn't mean that they are automatically better than you or that you don't deserve to be with someone who treats you with kindness and respect.

Everyone has their own unique qualities and characteristics that make them attractive to others. Instead of focusing on what you perceive as your shortcomings, try to focus on your positive qualities and what you can offer in a relationship. Being kind, respectful, honest, and attentive are all important qualities in a partner, and many people value those qualities above material possessions or education.

It's okay to take a chance and message people on dating apps, even if you feel intimidated by their perceived level of success or intelligence. You never know what someone might be looking for in a partner, and it's possible that someone you consider "out of your league" might be attracted to your unique qualities and perspective.

Remember that it's important to be confident and true to yourself, and not to try to be someone you're not in order to impress others. Focus on being the best version of yourself and the right person will appreciate and value you for who you are.

[WaterIsland]

Dating apps take a lot of patience. Just like dating in real life.


You have to put yourself out there a bit. I wouldn’t decline someone you’re interested in because you feel like they’re out of your league. Maybe they’re just as interested in you. You never know.


But keep at it, and don’t let the jerks bring you down.

[coachTanthony]

It's amazing how men look past the things you are talking about. Remember men don't go after the same things as women do. So start swiping on those men you might surprise yourself.

[n8765]

Yes you right, and also I heard same... but when I downloaded and started to swipe the profile... I was... fuck... these dude for sure will not want a poor girl like me.. who no well educated and also not have money for fun and so on, just a package of mental problems... they all have a funny life... who the fuck will need someone like me...

And if to be more specific
I'm into fun but in something more rational... and I will prefer better a nice walk with a sweet talk then have fun in the club... no judgement.. that's their needs and desires...
But because I don't allow myself it and it's just a waste of time it... I will seem boring
But yeah, I could go with people and enjoy to be around but, I don't want to spend money...

Sorry if I sound cheap

[coachTanthony]

Most real men want someone they can take care of and protect. You're perfect. You being poor has nothing to do with with we want because we don't care about that and the ones who do stay away from. Find a man who will cherish you for you and not worry about if you can split a bill at a restaurant.

[n8765]

I don't need restaurant... I need just a walk and understand... I don't need argue because spending money, because spitting bills in restaurant... I need just emotional support and sweetneas, attention on details.. just between small flowers daily... then some restaurants... which come with regrets after... I don't it... and I just want sweetness and care... which are for free

[n8765]

But thank you for your thoughts... mean a lot

[Icybread]

Nobody is perfect and I'm sure you know that already. If you keep skipping everyone you like, you'll never know if any of those guys fit what you're looking for in a relationship. It's best to take your chances rather than have regrets later on.

[Anonymous]

Chill. You'll find a guy. Just keep looking. Don't stop looking. If you stop you will never find him.

[bowenw]

You deserve everything you are looking for. None of it is unreasonable.

[es20490446e]

Lower your present demands, and raise your present execution.

[Stevefiveo]

Don't put yourself down. You miss all the shots that you don't take. So, just go for it.

[In_Trance]

stop comparing