How to get over the feeling that you will never be good enough for someone?

[BlissfullyCurSed]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How come you have that feeling?


That you, a human being are somehow less than another human being?


Good enough for what?


What do you think you lack?


You’ve got everything to be loved just the way you are.


You are no less than someone else. Remember that. Dob’t over idealize anyone.


Nobody’s perfect.

[bota_selena]

Become the best version of yourself. Then you’ll be good enough so you won’t need to get over that feeling

[KrakenAttackin]

First, realize that a modern woman is never "yours", it's only your turn with her. Second, in her mind you never will be good enough for her as she has 1,000 guys in her DM's, there will always be someone "better". Modern women are recreational, treat them as such.

[Gent207-2]

Leave your pity party and focus on helping others through volunteer work

[BlissfullyCurSed]

lolol. you literally told me to give up on things and maintain a religious lifestyle like a nun.

[Gent207-2]

Congratulations
Your self-centermess left you thinking that selflessness is only for religious people. You're a monster lol jk
I digress, wake up, by helping others you'll help yourself. You'll gain a new perspective amd a greater appreciation for your unique strengths. You'll also gain wisdom and a deeper understanding of what makes you.
Not saying you need to be a missionary or join the peace Corp, but helping out at your local soup kitchen or special Olympics will help you WAY more than the buzzfeed-bs-pop-psych advice you'll get on here.

Also maybe consider therapy- there are different types other than talk.
Anyways good luck

[jennifer_bloom]

Play Pokemon and say hi to people