How can I get over this?

Xper 1 Age: 15

So I have a girlfriend who is super hot but she is not that smart, basically i m 3x more smarter than her even tho she was my senior at school... but one day I broke up with her as my parents knew I m with her... and then I left her but still I miss her so much. On the other side my best friend doesn't like her very much we used to be togather most of their times... and when I broke up with her i was still messaging her on Instagram, but one day I was on trip with my bff and she seen all my messages with her, by the way she was also in the trip... and my bff got really upset with that, that she was about to end our friendship... but it took me 3-4 days to convince her... then I never talked to her later... my family and my ex's family has very good relations with each other.. so I don't want to make some drama from this relationship so I ended it... i really felt for her now her brother is forcing me to convince her that she can get better guy than me... but i said no... her answer to this was also no... we were truly in love with each other but due to these circumstances i couldn't help out...😭

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PrettyPriya Follow
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Here is the part that bothers me "super hot but she is not that smart, basically i m 3x more smarter than her even tho she was my senior at school". Now, why do you look at her like this? I can see why perhaps she is looking for a better guy. Sorry to say it but that is just plain rude to say about someone.
Sounds like perhaps you are both too young and not mature enough for a relationship. Why not focus on the important part of your life right now, which would be school. Girls can wait until later. Trust me.
You should be focused on school, sports, friends, family, etc right now. It just seems to me from the details that you are not ready to be in a relationship, despite what you might think.
If your family and her family have a good relationship, best just leave this be and not try to start any drama as you put it. That is not going to be good for anyone. Besides, sounds like she is ready to move onto someone else. Best you do the same.

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- Unreal_spell
  
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  Can you please give me you Instagram or something... so I can tell you what happened with me..
  
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Breanna_nonbinary Follow
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No offense but “I m 3x more smarter” kind of shows that you aren’t. Of course you’re only 14. My advice: learn, live and and be humble. Things will work themselves out. You can’t believe that the girl you like now will be the girl you’ll be with for the rest of your life. So refine your relationship skills now, that way you’re better prepared later in life.

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Guy13 Follow
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Don't worry about it puppy love. It will happen at least four more times and the majority of them will be leaving our "so smart" annoying arse and hand behind. Welcome to the real world.

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If you're 3X "more smarter" than her, she must be really fuckin dumb lol

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- WanderingLoveWizard
  
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  Just messin with you man. Honestly, if you love her you should stay with her. It doesn't matter how dumb she is or what the circumstances are, if you can stay together and you want to stay together, you should.
  You're only 14 though, so I wouldn't worry too much about it
  
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