Is it weird to have a boyfriend that’s 10 years younger?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say a 31 year old woman with a 21 year old man. Is that weird?

[WaterIsland]

I personally don’t think so. The biggest concern if I was in your position would be the maturity gap. You are likely in very different places in your life goals wise. And his maturity level is probably far lower than yours. Those can all make for very difficult dynamics in a healthy relationship.

[Berethor]

Is she cougar? it uncommon for woman to be older, because woman lose fertility pretty fast.

https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age

[Anemone978]

Not really but everyone around you will think its weird...

[SnowedIn]

Is it common? Not necessarily. But it's not bad or wrong. That said, expect people to judge and comment.

[ShiftingMonke]

I think its odd, but as long as you two are happy, that's all that matters.

[Mansearching]

Same as if it was vice versa. I don't think so. If your both happy, who cares what anyone else thinks.

[LiamJHayden]

The only opinions that should matter are those of the couple.

[zagor]

Nah I had a co-worker that has been married for 25 years to a guy nearly 20 years younger.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No...