Guys would you be fine if a cute girl reached out to you online? What if she doesn’t know your relationship status? Would you be rude?

[Anonymous]

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There’s a guy I like and I added him on LinkedIn

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Why do you guys think the women are scamming you? Maybe they actually like you? Think more highly of yourselves!

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd be fine now, but I was nervous on here and ultimately turned it down, there are plenty of scammers out there. I thought it would be difficult to do an online LDR considering it could be anyone on the other end. If given the opportunity to do it again, I'd go for it this time.

[Avicenna]

Sure, but she’s going to be viewed with suspicion.

[ShiftingMonke]

I would rebuff her. And like another user said, it's a common scam tactic.

[ShiftingMonke]

To OP: I can most definitely assure you, there are women (and some men that pose as women) for the sole purpose of getting money from impressionable or weak willed men. It's not fair to assume all women are scammers online, abs wet aren't doing that- but if you're inbox fills up with men seeking sexual content, eventually you'll get tired of weeding through them looking the decent person. Or, if you don't believe me, ask a public question about it.

[WellGreetingsISay]

I'd be fine with it. Wouldn't be rude but I would tell her I can just be a good friend

[Keishio]

If someone is rude online or offline to someone approaching them then the fault is on them. There's nothing wrong with approaching someone if you want to get to know them

[JustinTheGreat]

I’m married so when people try to flirt with me online I usually just leave them on read.

[Crankor]

No reason to be rude. How I responded would depend on my current situation ofcourse

[warsevf]

Thats why I am giving "benefit of the doubt" nowadays.

[Brando10222]

I will be honest. If she still doesn't stop then I'll be rude

[SnowedIn]

I'd be fine and the assess the situation.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll be polite. It’s ok, how could she know?

[BarryLiverstone]

Just adding him on linked isn’t effective. Ask him out

[Asker]

I asked him out in the invite message