Should I proceed with a guy who physically abused his ex in 2017 and cheated on her with men?

[Anonymous]

[Truthatanycost]

This shouldn't even be a question. The fact that it is one suggests there are some serious issues.

[douride2]

Run girl. Run for your life. Stay as far away as you can from a cheating abuser.

[Asker]

Even though it’s been five years?

[Mansearching]

No. That's a red flag

[Asker]

It’s been five years though?

[Mansearching]

So? Its like, once a cheater always a cheater.

[Asker]

I guess if it was like 10 years okay then yeah maybe he’s changed but I guess 17-21 isn’t hugely long for a man to have fully grown and matured and let go of all those toxic tendencies

[Mansearching]

Not really. But you can take ev1's advice you want to and not date him. Or you can take them like a grain of salt and date him. Its all up to you.