Girls, is it weird if someone starts dating by sexual attraction because they fear being rejected too easily?

[scooogy]

What I mean is that I usually find a woman attractive in a way but primarly enjoy her attention and would make it to a friendship first before going further

[Beatrix7]

yes i was always making mistakes sleeping with boyfriend before getting to know them then fell in love to quick and adored him gained his trust then he cheated but i decided to become a friend with one and goout for lunch a few times befoe going to his flat but he was to weird took teddys to work with him and if i ever get a l9ver again wich i dont know about because i want to be free to do what i want to do i would become a friend out for lunch a few times before going to deep just to get to know each other first