Is it true that guys are afraid of approaching/ dating with beautiful girls because they may get rejected?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Maybe in some cases yes but at the same time they look at the girl and they say she has to have a boyfriend so they just keep walking or

They might say she's snooty
Or they might say You're beautiful on the outside but damn as soon as you open your mouth you suck all the ugly comes out

There are a lot of very beautiful girls that are very beautiful on the inside those are the girls next door

But there are also a lot of beautiful girls who know that they're beautiful and will turn down the guy just to watch the guy go through his suffering or his pain or his embarrassment because that's who she is

And then there are beautiful girls who knows that they're beautiful and will not mingle with a regular guy because she believes that she deserves nothing but the best and I say good luck


But they're truly many reasons it's not pinpointed down for one reason maybe the guys insecure maybe he takes rejection to heart maybe It embarrasses him I think it's one of the best things that can happen to a guy because it brings them down a notch and it makes him think a little bit deeper about who he truly wants to be with it's okay to be rejected it's okay if you want to feel embarrassment it's okay however you want to take it it just wasn't meant to be it has nothing to do with the guy you should not be embarrassed same goes with girls it's just part of life we've all been through it and depending on who you are it's embarrassing or humiliating but it's just a part of life it's just a moment in time that moment will pass another one will come and he will find the girls that he likes and she will find the guy that she likes

[Anonymous]

At your age most girls are way ahead of boys when it comes to understanding dating. And yes beautiful women can be intimidating especially for teen boys and guys in their early 20s. They fear getting mocked and ridiculed if they approached a girl out their league.

Also boys your age are usually blind to “signals” and body language girls give off. Unless they are one of the 3% naturals they just don’t get what most girls really want. Modern society isn’t helping with this either (another story).

Sadly however the little punk ass guys your age are usually the most confident to approach women (and they often get them). Not that the little punk ass is usually treating women the right way. But right or wrong he (appears) to be confident.

Anyway if there is a boy you like but if he’s a bit shy it doesn’t hurt to smile at him and just get in a friendly conversation. It will calm his nerves and if he likes you he will likely ask you out.

But be genuine doing this. Don’t approach a boy you are not attracted to just to “be nice to him” because you feel bad for him or something. You might get his hopes up.

[DaveJord]

Its true for some guys for sure. But this why woman say they like confident men. At yor age it very common for guys to be this way. Why is that? Because you're so young, and guys you age are still trying to figure out how to talk to girls and approach girls... and yes when you have a crush rejection is hard.

As guys get older, they get over the rejection thing, but it's not easy... at 47 it hardly phases me any more... but at 16 it sucked hard. But at 47 I have rejected about 80 times... so who cares anymore. It's a common fact that for every 10 woman you ask out 9 will reject you, and for one that does say yes less than half leads to a second date. So that means you got to ask out like 50 women, get rejected at least 30 times, to get to a point that you can develop a real relationship with one.

[Avicenna]

that's silly. At worst, you get a convo with a hot woman. More than once, she's hooked me up with her sister.

[veganrogue]

When I was in my early teens, I was skinny as a pole, horrible hair, acne, the works. I was invisible to beautiful girls, never mind talk to one. In my late teens I started assisting professional photographers in NYC. I went from not talking to girls at all to working with supermodels instantly. I got so used to them being around that later when I was in the company of a beautiful woman, it was no big deal. To be honest it took me a long time to be comfortable in my own skin. Some guys aren't affected at all by the beauty of a woman. It's also a tough for a guy without much experience with women. Women of course tend to be attracted to confidence. How can you be confident with a woman until you've had experience to become comfortable with them? For some guys, his ability to seduce women is tied to his masculinity. Nobody wants to feel like a loser. If you think about it, most people look at failure as bad, but in reality the more mistakes you make the faster you learn. I can pretty much guarantee that if any guy who was intimidated by beautiful woman was forced to ask out five hot girls a day, in no time at all, he would be able to ask them out without any fear of rejection as that is part of the process. Some guys never get comfortable with "beautiful" women. I use quotes because it's all subjective. But generally speaking once a man finds his confidence, it's no longer an issue. In my late teens after I spoke to my first beautiful woman 'in the wild" outside the photo studio, and she actually gave me her number, I was confident from that point onwards. A lot of arrogant guys or players have success because they put in the work. They may not be nice guys, but they do ask every women they see, and just for that fact they do get results. I think for some young guys, the arrogance is just a mask for how scared they really are. But everybody is unique.

I hope this helps.

[VanillaSalt]

Studies on brain chemistry shows that rejection shows signs similar to that of physical pain. It’s a lot of work to approach for a small chance of success. Then what do we get from that success? What do women tend to be like today? Cheaters, attitude, angry, mean, obese, slutty, think their better… if they arnt like that by some slim chance what is the next step? Marriage? What do men think marriage brings? Sex, intimacy, family, children… but divorce is more than 50% of all marriage so after we get all that perfection it’s taken away…


The value men see in women is lower, the odds of the marriage being successful is lower, the cost of failure… Our lovers, family, friends, children, finances… everything we built for our family just disappears.


That’s fear. Losing everything you work for decades to build.

[Finchie40]

More than likely yes , a lot of guy’s lack confidence in themselves, they become their own worst enemy , and when they see a beautiful girl they automatically assume she is out of his league and that he doesn’t stand a chance with her , so he doesn’t go for it , because he is afraid to be denied , A lot of girls do this as well when she comes across a guy she finds very attractive and handsome. So it goes both ways in a sense. So until they learn to be confident within themselves that’s the cards they will be dealt , I use to be shy and lack confidence in myself when I was younger until I realized I have nothing to lose , it’s best for me to just go for it and take the chance then not take a chance at all is how I look at it , Once I got over my shyness , it opened doors to meeting new people mainly girls lol Being denied sucks but your chances of meeting someone amazing increases big time

[DarkWinterNights]

Guys can be rejected a hundred times before they get a single response- it isn’t rejection. Guys don’t want to approach beautiful women because it’s too much of a hassle. They’re often high maintenance, easily bored, emotionally unavailable, and even if you manage to get into a relationship with one, she’ll always have a list of backup guys waiting at the first argument or sign of trouble.

[inhua]

no. it's the MeToo movement where her word is above the law if she chooses to make a false crime allegation against him.

not every girl will do this but there's enough to the point where society will still automatically assume his guilt until he is proven innocent, not the other way around as the law dictates

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all. As for approaching beautiful girls I’m not afraid to get rejected & if I do get rejected I look at it like subconsciously they know they aren’t good enough for me & they did me a favor. Life moves on & so do I.

[RavVid]

For me I just reverse discriminate against very beautiful girls. Beautiful girls are undoubtedly cut a lot of breaks and tend not to be so beautiful on the inside. Not always true some are beautiful in both respects.

Most guys have figured out they are vulnerable to think beautiful on the outside girls are also beautiful on the inside.

[UnWokeDude_OrNot]

I simply assume that she is taken. And more often than not, a hunky dude has eyes on her and at the same time, she is just not worth it enough at the early stages to risk myself with that guy.

And many beautiful girls are full of themselves, so why should I get myself insulted, right? It's not the reason, but the way in which it is said. The girls seem to forget that the looks they have today may not be there tomorrow. We all are going to age. And some people do not age well.

[TheorionMage]

For the same reason a girl's ego prevents her from openly coming on flirtatiously to a guy she's majorly drawn to. NO ONE enjoys learning that they 'don't measure up' or are 'friend zoned'.

[aficionado]

Yes, I was afraid. But then I took a chance by approaching someone way above my league, looks wise. I was scared shitless, and was nervous. But she found my nervousness 'cute'. Ended up getting married to her eventually.

[sustemBuilder]

A guy needs to think he has at least a 1/3 chance to ask a girl out. One of my best friends when he had his first crush in high school he told the girl he wanted to go out with her and she literally laughed at him in public out loud she was the meanest girl there ever was!

A guy needs some positive signal to pop the question! The emotional risk is very high you and have to be really insensitive and heartless to ask women out constantly, 90% of guys aren't heartless.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nope. Not this one at least. I've regularly been shot at. I don't think she's going to do that. Ergo rejection sucks less.

[serious]

I am sure some men are. Yes they may think this woman is too gorgeous or out of their league so they never try.

[richardcory]

Can be. They may also assume (incorrectly) that a beautiful woman already has a partner if she wants one.

[serious]

Good point.

[SolitarySolace]

I don’t think it’s entirely the rejection men are worried about. It’s the false accusations that women throw at these men just because she doesn’t find him attractive.

[slatyb]

Some are. Don't be one of them. There are plenty of beautiful women who have no idea that they are attractive.

[exitseven]

Yes, that is the urban legend. Everyone thinks that these girls already have boyfriends or else they would reject most guys

[Averageguy69420]

I never grew out of being afraid to walk up to a girl. But now days we have to worry if the girl is going to think it's harassment

[Anonymous]

No. Guys are afraid of wasted effort. Of course nobody LIKES rejection. But guys are selective because guys know how many women just bait guys. Those women don't want to date him, they just want him to chase her.

[Anonymous]

Yes, just imagine yourself in the same position, it’s vulnerable and nerve wracking to say the least. Rejection leaves you feeling something is wrong with you and that you don’t deserve love.

[more_than_a_guy]

Yes, and it may depend on the guy's confidence. Many guys have insecurities approaching certain girls nowadays, me included. I try to pass it tho, yolo mindset.

[shades777]

nobody is afraid and women do reject men but also nobody wants to deal with the hassle of the princess attitude

[xnick216]

If a girl really pretty , boys think there should be a lot of boys flirt with her,
and she should have much options , no need one more. it increases posibility of rejection.

[aditya1998]

Yes, it is true for many men. If a man is confident about his attractiveness he would approach beautiful women without any qualms. But many men including myself never even try.

[yathish27]

some times average looking girls act like they are too beautiful at that point no male will make a move, If a gorgeous girl gives some green signal and not cocky guys will make a move but it depends

[Grovermint]

I approached plenty and was mocked for it. Some are, some aren't, and some don't care.

[LiamJHayden]

Some are, I'm not. Striking out is just part of going up to the plate.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Well sure, that's the same reason women don't approach men. But men do it a whole hell of a lot more than women do.

[TallAnon]

I'm sure some guys think that way. And some guys don't. We don't all share one hivemind.

[Anonymous]

Definitely, The fact that you are even asking this question proves you Girls do not live in the real world and oblivious to things like this about Guys.

[balyai]

I don't know about others but I'm not afraid of that

[KrakenAttackin]

Most "beautiful" girls aren't worth the hassle.

[Anonymous]

A lot of them probably are at your age, but eventually they have to get over it and put themselves out there.

[Cheerfull009]

Guys who are attractive and confident, does afraid to approach beautiful girls

[Smashingdoozy]

Man that must be why I don't get asked out

[Guffrus]

Would you go out with me? x

[Smashingdoozy]

@Guffrus 😳 flattered

[Guffrus]

Well it's an open invitation, one which I, in part, hope you never take me up on (because I just want the best for you and there are people out there who can give you a life that isn't available to me).

[Smashingdoozy]

@Guffrus 😂😂 you're too sweet. Can't wait to find that person

[Wonderingguyy]

Yeah that can be true, and vice versa

[magiusX26]

there is some varying degree of that out there.

[Grond21]

It's extraordinarily common

[In_Trance]

a lot of times, yes this is the case

[OddBeMe]

Wherever did you hear such a claim?

[SnowedIn]

Often, yes.

[Anonymous]

Or sent to fave a MeToo firing squad

[justabuddy]

Yes, that whole growing up thing is a bit rough.

[MaxUsefull]

Yes, it’s true

[msc545]

Yes, very much so

[Anonymous]

It's a little more complex nowadays.

[Anonymous]

Yeah most of them

[DerekC321]

Yes, I can be.

[Jmmmfi4]

100 percent

[riverrat3]

Sometimes

[riverrat3]

Are you a beautiful girl