Are stalkers motivated by romance, revenge, or a desire for control? (Page 2)

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malwins Follow
Xper 7 Age: 32

+1 y

Id say they love one so much or some traits of them

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- savagewolf22
  
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  I stalk you 😘❤️
  
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Anonymous
(18-24)

+1 y

Stalkers, just do it cause they wanna see what you are up too

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Anonymous
(36-45)

+1 y

Revenge and control. “I’ll show her how much she hurt me”

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SnowedIn Follow
Master Age: 52 , mho 37%

+1 y

Almost certain all of the above and more.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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I am on the Autism Spectrum and a convicted stalker. Ask me anything.

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sheenagwapa Follow
Yoda Age: 40

+1 y
542 opinions shared on Dating topic.

all i can say is that i refused to be use...

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Agape93 Follow
Master Age: 34

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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Revenge, entitlement, control and fear.

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TheSpaceGnome Follow
Master Age: 39

+1 y
2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Usually lonliness I would think.

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Pacquet Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36

+1 y

I’ll only stalk her if she’s an amazing cook.

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MysticDevice Follow
Guru Age: 31

+1 y
408 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Really its all 3 of those.

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annabananna Follow
Yoda Age: 34

+1 y
420 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Control, obsession, fear of rejection… etc

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aaron210419 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 40

+1 y

All three in a lot of cases

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Anonymous
(30-35)

+1 y

it's always control

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Anonymous
(36-45)

+1 y

All of the above, really.

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AngryCarl2 Follow
Yoda Age: 66

+1 y
518 opinions shared on Dating topic.

The last one. Control.

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LemiaOfThunder Follow
Yoda Age: 38

+1 y

a bit of all three

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msc545 Follow
Master Age: 39

+1 y
5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

They are mostly trying to satisfy an obsession

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Anonymous
(25-29)

+1 y

Loneliness , longing, low self worth

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hismave Follow
Xper 4 Age: 23

+1 y

I guess desire and romance

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In_Trance Follow
Master Age: 27

+1 y
15K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Probably none of those. It's likely validation

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EaterPeter Follow
Guru Age: 53

+1 y
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

They might feel helpless to their urges?

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- EaterPeter
  
  +1 y
  Thanks for like!
  
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- EaterPeter
  
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  Common thing would be uncontrollable affection for particular person.
  
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Keishio Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

+1 y

Insecurity and control I'd say

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TheAfrikan Follow
Yoda Age: 34

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837 opinions shared on Dating topic.

I guess they are in for all.

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krin_m Follow
Guru Age: 63

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775 opinions shared on Dating topic.

I don't stalk. Not worth the effort.

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Master Age: 56

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1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I ain't no stalker

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Bklynbadboy12 Follow
Guru Age: 38

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1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

No there assholes motivated by stupidity

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PhenomenalQueen Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30 , mho 34%

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I believe it’s revenge and control.

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LovingLoverReturned Follow
Explorer Age: 25 , mho 42%

+1 y

All of the above.

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MountAverage Follow
Guru Age: 40

+1 y

Do you really need to ask? I mean, how isn't it obvious which of these three it is?

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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  Not to me. Which of the three would you say it is?
  
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- MountAverage
  
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  Is it at least obvious to you which of these three it definitely is NOT? Come on, you're old enough to know this.
  
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- malwins
  
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  She didn't mention anything valid, which is „mental illness“
  
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- MountAverage
  
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  @malwins Good point. Although I wouldn't call that the motivation, but rather the cause for it.
  
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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  I have Asperger’s and no it’s not obvious. Otherwise, why would I ask? Now, are you going to tell me or not?
  
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- MountAverage
  
  +1 y
  I think it's always better for people to figure these things out themselves, than to just have other people tell them. Let's try this:
  
  What would you say makes stalking a bad thing for the person that's being stalked?
  
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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  It scares you.
  
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- MountAverage
  
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  But why does it scare you?
  
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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  Because it’s weird.
  
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- MountAverage
  
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  So, it doesn't scare you because you feel threatened, but because it's "weird"?
  
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- malwins
  
  +1 y
  My stalker does smth oeculiar: he always reminds me when we met abd what could we possibly do in future together, like asks my summer plans
  
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BBFDancer Follow
Xper 7 Age: 41

+1 y

I say depends on the person

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JJ092003 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 22 , mho 34%

+1 y

Obsessive

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Anonymous
(36-45)

+1 y

Depends on the stalker.

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Blackcupcake Follow
Guru Age: 25

+1 y

obsession illusion probably

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Anonymous
(18-24)

+1 y

You neve know... There are some creepos out there!

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coconut94 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 32

+1 y

Control

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_Just_A_girl_ Follow
Yoda Age: 32

+1 y

hm I don't know all

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Minahh Follow
Yoda Age: 25

+1 y
669 opinions shared on Dating topic.

I'd say all of those

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eksekskes Follow
Xper 2 Age: 22

+1 y

Mostly

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teddybearthefirst Follow
Xper 2 Age: 54

+1 y

It depends

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jimmy2 Follow
Master Age: 66

+1 y
3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

They want control

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

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Probably romance

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