Anyone else find single people their age not attractive in the dating world?

[Paul09]

Everytime I check out dating APPS or websites. I find women near my age aren't attractive to me. They look way older than me, or are out of shape. Is it just me? I just swiped "no" to so many women.

[NewYorkCity]

There is an old saying and I quote "men age like wine, women age like milk" There is a heavy truth to it. Older men tend to be more stable and a lot more mature in their relationship, at least that's how it was couple decades ago, these days rules have changed, Dramatically. As it goes for women, younger girls tend to be a lot more sexually appealing to men (more fertile, less chances of getting a child defect, more energetic, because it takes A lot to raise children and they still would look younger-ish when their kids be 18+) that is why men are REALLY trying to find G. F./Wives that are younger than them.

[Paul09]

The thing is, I know and seen plenty of older attractive women. Not so much while on dating apps.

[NewYorkCity]

Dating apps were always a scam for 85% of guy's population, since only top handsome guys are able to get laid on a daily basis. As it goes for women, all women on those dating apps are trying to get those top guys and they COMPLETELY ignoring the rest 85% so don't feel bad for them. On top of that, have you ever asked those older ladies, how come are they 30+ and still single? Well, because 90% of them while they were young and still attractive, were parting and sleeping with more guys than stars in the sky, but eventually the fun train stops and 20 turns to 30+ and be able to pick up attractive guys for a long term relationship in real life, became impossible. That is where dating apps come into play for them.

[OfMiceandMen]

I never bothered with online dating, it was best just to meet women in the grocery store, or when you were on a business trip somewhere in a nearby town. At least you have the chance to chat them up and see what they are really like. Too many people lie on their profiles, and it is often a waste of time wading through them as you mention above.

[Paul09]

You are right. I just don't got the charisma for it.

[OfMiceandMen]

Thanks.🙌

[Apple1996]

I don't think too many people past 40 look that great anyways so it's probably gonna be difficult for your specific age range to find each other attractive. At that point it's really more about personality then looks

[Paul09]

Oh I've seen plenty of attractive people my age. Just less in dating sites. I also have been called way younger than my age lol. Personality is a priority for sure. But looks are hard to avoid. Must have both.

[Apple1996]

Yeah I could see that dating apps probably bring in the ugly women since they can't find someone in real life. The attractive ones are either taken, just wanna be single or get hit on enough irl so they avoid the apps

[Étoile9]

Yeah well... I'm 32 but I physically look like i'm like 23 so I do like guys that look younger than my age. I don't want a kiddy but I don't want someone that look much older than me. I also hate big beard.

[Guy13]

All of us... Young girls and the boys their age are inexperienced children even as late as 26 years old. older guys and the worn hard and dried in the sun women are not conducive to one another unless there is a deeply grounded and mulit-tiered love.

[Avicenna]

You’re dealing with people who have a harder time finding partners because their single moms and/or overweight.

[exitseven]

I have noticed that most people of all ages are not in very good physical condition. They are often overweight and have poor muscle tone. I see women at the gym of all ages that I think are very attractive. I have seen young people at the beach that look like they are middleaged. I think it depends more on the individual person and not how old they are.

[AdithyaR]

Hell no, my issue is the opposite. I see tons of attractive women, the problem is that I lack attractiveness 🤣

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Stop putting yourself down bro

[AdithyaR]

I'm just being realistic man, tis but the truth.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

God begs to differ
Proverbs 7:2: "Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye".
Psalm 139 : “fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful”
2 Timothy 1:7 “for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”

[PainusNdeeAnus]

As a man thinks so he is a little positivity can really help
Stop focusing on what you lack and what you have
Also be glad you aren’t a woman looks really matter for them

I’m sorry I know you were joking but I hate seeing guys put themselves down especially guys who are so young and full of potential

[AdithyaR]

I know I've got potential in something like academics and I've got my path all set and in the motion for that. But dating ain't something I've got potential in so it's better left in the dust for me.
But thank you for the advice.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Good. Dating does define the caliber of man you are or will become

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Doesn’t

[AdithyaR]

Yep, my only goal in life rn is to devout myself to making literature and teaching literature. That's what I've decided will define me.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I’m rooting for ya bud

[AdithyaR]

Thanks man, i appreciate it. I wish you good luck too.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most women my age are boring people with no fun hobbies who look twice my age. So yeah it's rare that I find one attractive.

[Anonymous]

the women in my state look like gargantuant lochness monsters hideous enough to break a mirror

[noohair]

I believe that our caveman brain does that because of the drive of men to procreate.

[Paul09]

In a way yes. But to me it's more about symmetry in looks.

[noohair]

Your opinion is as valid as mine. It was a good observation and a probing question.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Makeup has ruined them.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah I agree. Younger the better.

[Anonymous]

Yeah give my older women
30/35 you know