Im a person who doesn't do drugs, is not interested in flashy cars, raves, concerts and gets drunk easily. Is that a turn off to girls my age?
I'm more mature than most people my age im 22 a lot of people i've talked to me have said I have a wise head on young shoulders.
That's fine for money and career problems, however it doesn't help me in the dating game and it can be seen as boring or stale
Do girls find this unattractive or am I dating the wrong age group and should venture a different gap?
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Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I myself am 21, and I find myself going for guys several years older than me because every guy in my age range is so immature. None of them seem to have their lives together and they're ok with that. As a girl, I look for a guy that can take care of me in the long run. If you're working retail part time, still living in your mom's house and then when you take me to dinner you loudly state that you need to transfer money from your savings just to pay for dinner (yes I'm speaking form experience) it's not attractive or desirable. It's a major turn off that every guy my age is like that. We are at the age that we are essentially looking for a mate to marry. As a female, I am looking for a stable male with a decent grown up job who is mature and I feel can support me. Girls don't want a guy that comes into the relationship with so little ambition and no life goals. No girl wants to have a guy that she has to support because he can't grow up.1