I'm wondering this because with all the dating sites and books available, why do people have a hard time finding someone to be in a relationship with, let alone date? Even people who are in their 40's or 50's don't find someone who they can truly click with. I've only dated 2 guys, but the relationships were very short lived, so I don't know what a serious relationship is like. Whenver I like a guy, its either he doesn't feel the same or when he does, things fall apart before they even get serious. I have this stupid tendancy of dooming things before they start, because it usually goes 2 hell. I don't know, I've pretty much given up. Am I, as well as other people out there, not cut out for dating? Having a man is no big deal to me. However, I just wonder if I'm doing something wrong?