Why would your boyfriend keep saying he too busy and won’t he just break up with you?

[Anonymous]

[ProbablyClueless]

Either he doesn't actually want to break up with you, or he just doesn't want to be the bad guy.

It sounds like you two need to have a serious conversation about where things are headed.

[Asker]

He keeps saying he doesn’t know when I try to speak to hi

[Asker]

Him not hi

[ProbablyClueless]

"I don't know" means that he isn't happy, but he's not unhappy enough to break up.

[Asker]

Thanks

[ProbablyClueless]

Sure thing. Best of luck

[Anonymous]

He’s too busy..

wait until he gets free.

[Asker]

He been saying this for over 4 weeks

[avery58]

He wants you to break up with him so he want feel guilty about it

[avery58]

*he won't

[Asker]

I tried to break up with him but he said we need to work on the relationship

[avery58]

I had an ex like that. In the end he broke up with me and told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and was lying to himself that he wanted one

[spartan55]

Why can't you break up with him?

[Asker]

He won’t let me

[spartan55]

What is wrong with you? There is no 'letting you'... you don't need his permission... what are you not getting here?

[slatyb]

Why don't you just break up with him?

[Asker]

He won’t let me

[slatyb]

Are you living together? Has he imprisoned you?

[Asker]

We aren’t living together and no he hasn’t imprisoned me. He keep saying we are a couple.

[slatyb]

He can say whatever he wants. Make it known that it's over and you are available.

[Asker]

Thanks