What's the reason for enemy feelings between two boys who are once close friends?

[Anonymous]

Assume that they both have crush on a same girl. Can she be sure that she's not the reason for creating enemy feelings between both of them?

[Orion76]

And she is probably thinking i should shut them out both to avoid that. It’s really not her job to worry about that if my fried was gonna turn on me because a woman chose me then he isn’t a friend you know who your friends are in situations like that


She should worry about choosing what makes her happy and let them figure it out if there is true friendship things will work out and if not well at least you will know who your friend is. 2 guys like one girl, she likes one of them it ends here the other should respect that period.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Orion76]

We were close friends until it became a triangle. When tensions became noticeable she cut us off and went away but she kept in touch with me she had a way of showing how she cared but didn’t want to get into the subject, almost a year later she asked me if I’m still taking her out for dinner. She did that for a reason I didn’t see it first but If we started our relationship in the middle of that conflict he would have been an inseparable part of of it. Also when she cut off she saw people’s true colors almost immediately the way some guys act they automatically remove themselves lol.

[Asker]

Yeah. But I'm not like her to cut off both. I can cut off one and stay with the other. But I need to accept a right guy who's good for me

[Orion76]

I didn’t say you do that yes it’s harsh for me it was but it eliminates guilt. Bottom line she shouldn’t feel guilty even she is the reason. She should make up her mind who she wants and the other person should be civil. It will work itself out. Best of luck

[Asker]

thanks

[Orion76]

Thank you for Mho 😊

[SteveSmith1985]

well, no. Obviously it's the girl who caused the feelings. So... that's... really simple actually. Happens all the time. But... no you CAN be sure that it was you. What else would it be? Clearly it was you.

But... that's ok. That's neither your "fault" nor is it something you need to be involved in. Those guys will either work shit-out, or not, in time. But the working it out or not part has got nothing to do with you. But the enemy feelings... that was 100% you. (not that you did anything wrong).

[Guy13]

It is always a woman getting between the guys. We are competitive and no one likes to lose. Hopefully, they will outgrow it.

[Paul09]

Very possibly yes. If both are single, both a close friends, so they have the same tastes. Can cause jealousy and chaos. But maybe not. Could even be mad temporarily.

[Asker]

They're not friends anymore and it's obvious. I guess they won't get back with each other again since they're not even liking each other

[Asker]

I donno what happened. What possibly might be happened?

[Paul09]

You can could always ask one of them of them. That's if he tells the truth too. It could be still fine tho. Close friends usually make up. Maybe with time. Unless it's some serious reason.

[Lionman95]

No I would assume that they both having a crush on her is the reason for them turning into rivals.

[Mayo503]

Wow… sorry to hear that maybe you should put it right instead of playing them and make up your mind who you want…
That’s unfair on the two of them

[EaterPeter]

That could defunetly create jealousy or rivalry

[EaterPeter]

Definitely

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Anonymous]

she is

[msc545]

ask them