Which type of feminine energy do you find more attractive and why?

[Babygirl_S]

Light feminine

Dark feminine

[Weapon77]

I definitely prefer the light kind, but I'm dominant enough that the dark kind doesn't bother me either. I don't mind a challenge. But there is that thin line that the dark kind sometimes crosses where a gal can start thinking she is better than other people and tries to dominate rather than just be a good leader. And even worse if she tries to lead or dominate me because she'll quickly find herself alone. But the dark kind of femininity that simply challenges me and keeps me in check if I'm getting too aggressive or cruel or something is great because I'm a good guy, but we all go too far sometimes. It's nice to have someone who isn't afraid to point out when anger or whatever is getting the best of us

[Berethor]

Seduction can be hard to resist, but I prefer purity, so my vote is going to light feminine. :)

[AviatorTom]

I prefer a woman with elements of both, but if I have to pick one, I choose dark... I like an independent woman, someone who can take care of herself... so that I don't have to take care of her for everything.

[coachTanthony]

I really like both rows of attributes. Maybe a mix lol

[DudeDiligence]

The light list is definitely more accurate in terms of what femininity really is. I don't know who came up with the dark list but it includes qualities that either sex can have but are not really associated with femininity. Some women have masculine energy, but that doesn't make it femininity.

[Subarugirl]

There are a lot of issues with all of that. Nothing dark about having and maintaining boundaries, knowing what you want and being confident... nothing inherently feminine about it either.

Having confidence, boundaries, ambition, passion, emotional maturity, empathy, grace, intuition, knowing what you want, and authenticity are just the traits of a mature, well-rounded person.

Being manipulative isn't feminine or masculine either it's just toxic.

[loveslongnails]

In all my years of dating and knowing women, I've YET to meet a single woman who didn't possess traits from both sides of your charts, and not just one or two. I also don't think some of those traits/descriptors are very accurate or representative of the side they're on.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Both are attractive, but I usually fall in love with the chicks that have the light feminine qualities. The other time might be the chick I hate fu*k and spit in her mouth.

[Adam1978]

Clearly someone doesn't know about femininity or masculinity wrote those list because it contains items that is gender neutral such as boundaries. If anything it's dominant in masculine behavior.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Dark feminine, they’ll take.

I’ll tell you why,

I had that energy when my ex fell for me, then when I fell hard for him, I changed into light feminine and guess what? My ex fiance finally broke up with me.

So, be that dark feminine girl, men aren’t really worth to get the first one. Be that to yourself, to men be the 2nd one.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Before break up he even told me I became weak after I fell in love with me.

If loving you is being weak, being nurturing, caring, loving and empathetic is weak, then I’ll promise you won’t get any love from me.

So if you want a man to be interested - Be the Lilith and stay the Lilith.

You can give the first energy to your children.

[Babygirl_S]

But according to the poll they prefer light feminine.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He was madly in love with me when I acted like a heartless seductress, when I fell for him and opened up my heart into a new energy I’d never had before, my light feminine energy, he admired me, he cherished me, he protected me, but that fierce passion was gone and he was gone with that as well, after 3 years. Always keep that dark Lilith in yourself, never fall for any men so hard that you’ll unleash your most vulnerable self.

You’ll get hurt.

I know that and I wish I knew that when I was 23-24-25.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Always keep something for yourself, only man who’s worth seeing that side of yours will be your son… Your brother even, your father maybe. But not your husband.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't think I can adopt all the traits of a dark feminine woman like dominant, manipulative etc.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not manipulative either, but you should know the art of flirt…

I was a literal angel for my ex-fiance. Yet he chose to be an ex and now is in a relationship with a woman who is more of the dark feminine energy.

I was that woman when we started dating. But love makes us our kindest selves…

[Babygirl_S]

So I guess "grey feminine" is good?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Dark grey.

Be dark but sometimes reward them with your kindness.

Men won’t like what I say but my experience taught me one thing, just like a puppy needs a training, so are the men.

You got to get them trained, only reward them with your kindest part when they do something really good.

But that must be temporary, he should keep trying for that.

Or you’ll get as heart-broken as I got. I almost died with the pain. He was my fiancé, someone who loved me the way lots of girls dream to be loved, someone very attractive as well. Our love story was so magical and crazy, there could be a movie about it.

And yet, he left me… Even though I was an amazing girlfriend.

Lesson learned.

Don’t be amazing. Be your self. They like or dislike you - forget that.

Who cares.

You shouldn’t.

Be the girl you are in the room alone and don’t ever change that for anyone, even for the purest and sweetest love.

[helpmary16]

wow this entire thread is so sexist. Basically, any traits that are submissive and passive as labeled as "light", and valued by many of the commenters here as more moral. Meanwhile, traits that involve any sort of self agency are labelled as "dark", and by many commenters on here, not feminine at all?

Maybe just let women be full, complex people and stop with this nonsense.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I'm told that I embody all the traits of both.

[prensesmishka]

A woman can be all of them. So what am I, medium feminine? It’s a funny question. I don’t even know what else to say.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Which one of them has the decision taking ability? For anything?

[Babygirl_S]

Dark feminine.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Dark feminine then. As per the image, I find nearly every trait from the dark feminine to be of benefit to me. So dark feminine it is.
I would focus on the -
decision-making ability
confidence
manipulative
boundaries
dominant.

I have decision-making abilities. I can take harsh decisions swiftly. I am also confident, to some degree. I like my boundaries to be respected. I would expect the same from her. I don't care for the dominant part that much.

There are many things a woman can do that man cannot.
So, it is better to have manipulation ability. And a confident woman is someone no one messes with. That is also a plus point.

What are you?

[Babygirl_S]

I don't really know. People can decide better.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

That's true. I know less about myself and more about others. I need to do a better job in this area. Know more about myself. It will help me grow, and that too effectively.

[Zayed_]

The pictures weren’t chosen correctly because a woman with dark feminine treats (which no one has it all) can be a great wife not playboy type of girl

[Babygirl_S]

They're pretty accurate.

[Zayed_]

Lets agree to disagree.

[FreyaRed]

The Dark side always wins

[Djaay]

The light always prevails over the dark. The light replicates a Godly manner , the dark replicates a sinners quelm.

[JosyJosy]

"Graceful"... "emotional"..."pure" well crap, guess it's dark for me.

[DarkWinterNights]

Definitely the “light” feminine energy. “Dark” seems toxic and unhealthy for a relationship.

[madamblack]

I guess I'm both of them. Bcz I picked fifty fifty so I'm c option, gray

[Jennz6]

I like girls that are delicate, sensual, soft and sweet 💯💕

[htmndg183]

Dark. I don't know, just always found a dominant woman who knows what she wants as attractive. It just shouts confidence for me.