Why does my boyfriend think there's no problem with his best friend trying to talk to me all the time? ?

[Anonymous]

his friend texts me almost eberyday and sometimes calls me too often anf i find that odd

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His best friend is a guy

[Guy13]

That’s dumb and disrespectful of him but whatever. He will learn the hard way if he does indeed care about you. There’s going to be friendship issues over this.

[Asker]

It's weird because I feel like his friend doesn't know boundaries and it doesn't bother him. He compliments me on how beautiful I am in front of him like it's not a big deal

[Guy13]

That is highly odd. You think they are up to something shady? In today's world all the mixed up relationships. I will tell you there are some in the guy code that think passing it along and comparing notes is like a ritual and a good time. Hopefully, he is not one of these types...

[Asker]

I don't really know. His friend asked me once if we were still together on the day the 3 of us hung out

[Guy13]

Maybe you are being Tested by him in some weird sort of way. Good girl maybe?

[Asker]

I don't even know but I don't trust either of them now

[Guy13]

EXACTLY... tragic but true.

[Fanfare690]

Me too. He either trusts y'all both or he's got a side too

[Asker]

I told him I'm not comfortable with it and he's acting like I'm overreacting. He wants to hang out with me one on one. He said he wants to be my best friend too. My boyfriend acts like none of this means anything

[Fanfare690]

Very weird.
Tell him vocally to the best friend that's not something you're interested in. You feel it's not appropriate he should respect that

[Asker]

Yeah but why does my boyfriend not react to this?

[Fanfare690]

I don't know lol ask him that.

[Fanfare690]

Do you think your boyfriend is cheating on you?

[Asker]

I did but nothing. It's just odd to me. When I told him about his friend wanting to hang out with me at his house? It didn't bother him at all.

[Fanfare690]

At the friends house? Hang out 1 on 1? Is the best friend a guy?

[Asker]

YEs and Yes

[Fanfare690]

Do you think your boyfriend is loyal to you?

[Fanfare690]

How long have y'all been together. It could be a ploy to see what kind of engagement ring to get

[Asker]

What does his loyalty have to do with his friend?

[Asker]

3 years

[Asker]

I don't know he looks at pics of other women on instagram

[Fanfare690]

I feel if your boyfriend doesn't question the weirdness of this I feel your boyfriend has a girlfriend on the side. I could be wrong but either that or he treats you both

[Asker]

I never caught him but maybe he did. Tried to make me look stupid. Our fist valentines day he told me let's take a week break after an argument

[Fanfare690]

Oh no...

[Fanfare690]

How old your boyfriend
How many gfs has he had in life

[Fanfare690]

He sounds really fucking inexperienced

[Asker]

I'm his first and he had situationships with women who ddin't return the same feelings. He's 24

[Asker]

hmmm maybe

[Asker]

i am too but i have common sense

[Asker]

His friend even texted me if we were still together on the same day the 3 of us hung out

[Fanfare690]

Omg seriously

[Fanfare690]

Fishy af

[Asker]

Yes I'm serious

[Asker]

One time he asked me why did I decide to date him? Said he feels like I'm out of his league