Men do you care about a womans career or income before marriage?

[Hafza99]

[SteveSmith1985]

I don't. If anything I might worry if she had a shitload of money or some super-prestegious career (because I've got neither).

The reason I would be worried, is because I wouldn't want her to feel I was leeching off of her.

I could absolutetly be convinced to overcome any of these fears just by talking it out.

If you mean would I look down on someone who didn't have much money or a fancy career? No. That isn't going to factor into it for me. Call me old-school, but for me... marriage is still 100% about love.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but not in the sense women care about those things in men.

A woman's career and income are not important to us unless they indicate something about her views on marriage and family, or what type of wife and mother she would be. The fact is women who are very ambitious and place a lot of value on their careers tend to make poor wives and mothers.

[Nikki1989]

Career yes, but I have never been asked about my income.

[Hafza99]

Do you feel like your career made a difference to your dating life?

[Sunssong]

No... @Hafza99 do you care about your persons income or career?

Actually I take that back. I do care. Not about the income part but I don't want to be with a doctor or a layer. I don't wanna be with someone who is always away.

Part of me prefers a girl who hasn't had schooling. They tend to be less superficial. Someone who isn't popular or had 20 sex partners.

[Hafza99]

Are u a female your all over the place yes I do care about my husbands income as I need to know if he can provide me with security and provision as he is going to be the only breadwinner. However the question was aimed at men as typically men don’t care about women’s career or income as the men don’t benefit from their wives income or career also majority of divorces are initiated by women and career women who initiate divorce is even higher

[HighValue]

I only care that it isn't something immoral, and isn't anything that requires travel for days away from home. Income doesn't matter to me. If she worked in schools like I do or only worked part time so she would have more time for me that would be good.

[Anonymous]

I mean I wouldn't date a woman who was a drug dealer or a career criminal. But I don't judge people by thier age or education and I despise those that do. I'm less concerned with her income and more concerned with her views on money management. Because while I'm pretty well off financially I'm thrifty. If she's not cut from the same cloth as me then it's never going to work. Material things do not impress me. I work to live not live to work.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I care & if I’m in a relationship I care as well & if she has a career or income that’s a bonus. As for marriage that’s another story & I don’t care for marriage.

[Fireguy17]

No, as long as she is happy and we have enough money to live on then no.
Possibly when you have a family, or buy a house then the income level can create issues.

[Berethor]

I don't think so, most gold diggers are female, I care about beauty, age and maternal instinct.

[FilmGuy93]

Not particularly, no. All that really matters to me is that she isn't in a huge amount of debt.

[Zandoval]

Not really, unless they're planning to go 50/50 in the marriage which most women aren't going to do

[Mayo503]

No….
What’s that got to do marriage if you want to marry someone you just do it

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Technically if they have a ton of debt and die, their spouse could be responsible for it.

But I know what you mean lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No


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[dudeinohio]

Nope

[Snedger____]

Yes I do

[In_Trance]

Absolutely

[Anonymous]

Not really.