Guys are you more attracted to ambitious women? Why or why not?

[Anonymous]

[SomeRandomGuy89]

I feel that nothing short of ambition is socially acceptable for men. The problem with ambition is that its tied to stress. Ambitious woman are draining and when I already have so little left in the tank... I need a recharge not further depletion.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Odd, I find it stressful to not persue ambitions.

[Asker]

I feel like it’s the same for women now tbh.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

What I'm trying to say is that for men, ambition is a large factor in our sexual viability; it makes us more attractive. It's a desirable and almost fundamentally necessary trait. It's at the core of dam near every female fantasy.

The same cannot be said for women. That's not to say it can't sometimes be necessary for women. It could be, depending on your life and circumstances, a high drive and ambition would absolutely benefit you in life. But it's not a male fantasy. It's not attractive.

When I think "wow, I want her"... ambition is never on the list of reasons why.

@TheSpaceGnome You must have a lot of stress.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes if she has the ambitions I do.

[Asker]

Which are?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Running a company from home with my SO.

[boggboss]

Not really a trait I care about in a partner