Is the relationship over with?

[Anonymous]

its been 4 days since my boyfriend talking to me before our fight. i haven't heard from him in 4 days but he's friends with my brother because they go to the same school and has been talking to him. I asked my brother has he mentioned anything about me but my brother said no.

[SteveSmith1985]

You need to ask him. If it's been 4 days, then it's time for him to either be willing to talk-through whatever the fight was about. Or enough time for him to realize that this is something he won't be able to get over, and so will need to end your relationship.

Just march-on-over and demand the dude talk to you. That's fully reasonable. You ask if he wants to break up with you. If he does. Sorry. But best that you know. If he doesn't, great then he'd better be willing to talk. If he's "not sure" tell him to come find you whnever he's figured it out.

But... don't just sit there continuing to wonder. You have a right to know. He's had time to figure out what's up. Time to talk, or break up, or leave him to take his own time to figure out what he wants to do, while you start looking at moving on (unless he's got some REALLY valid reason... don't be waiting for this guy to make a decision. You have a right to know where you stand)

[MikeTheBartender]

Four days means nothing... But a man who ignores a woman for days is not someone you want to give your time to. Answer mine if you're bored:

Were there red flags in your esignificant others FRIENDS that later you realized should have clued you into his or hers?

[Guy13]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. As long as you reached out once then hold off until he deals with whatever is bothering him.

[LazerBean]

It is inevitable, yes.