As I’m reading questions here on GaG. I’ve noticed women post questions about how they try to initiate to date men. But with no luck. While men on GaG post questions insulting, belittling, degrading women. So why is it women are trying to pursue a relationship but not men?
No, it is not women's fault that men may not pursue relationships as much as they used to. It is important to recognize that both men and women have agency in their decision-making and behavior when it comes to relationships.
There are many factors that may contribute to changes in dating and relationship dynamics, including shifts in societal norms, changes in technology and communication, and individual preferences and values. It is not fair or accurate to blame one gender for these changes.
In order to navigate these changes and build healthy and fulfilling relationships, it is important for both men and women to communicate openly and honestly with each other, to respect each other's boundaries and preferences, and to prioritize mutual respect and kindness in all interactions.
It's important to remember that not all men or all women have the same experiences or behaviors when it comes to pursuing relationships. While some women may be more proactive in initiating contact with men they are interested in, there are also many men who actively pursue relationships and put effort into building connections with women.
At the same time, it's important to recognize that there are societal factors that may contribute to differences in dating and relationship dynamics between men and women. These factors may include gender stereotypes, expectations, and biases, as well as differences in communication styles and socialization.
It is not fair or accurate to make generalizations about all men or all women based on the behaviors or experiences of a few individuals. It is important to approach each person and each situation with an open mind and a willingness to communicate and build mutual respect and understanding.
Building healthy and fulfilling relationships requires effort and communication from both parties, regardless of gender. By prioritizing mutual respect, kindness, and open communication, men and women can create strong and lasting connections that are based on trust, respect, and shared values.
Truthfully, you guys love yourselves so much and the Feminist are so slanted and hateful and media backs it in its attempt to destroy the family, and now you guys relish in your bisexuality and lesbians. It use to be fun when we said Go F- yourself but now it is reality.
We're over it and disregard you as many of the slut dressing, baby popping, same-sexing do to themselves. We're just not interested in jumping those hoops and body counts being both sexes. At least the Golden Retriever is loyal.
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My GOSH! Both genders are to blame. There is amazing men and women and not so great.
It's not entirely women's fault, but yes, it is mostly their fault.
In the past, people dated with the goal of finding a life partner to marry. Marriage was the ultimate prize. But not so much today. Marriage now is very different than it used to be. There are far fewer benefits to men in marriage than there were in the past, and it is also much more risky for men now. Half of marriages end in divorce, women initiate 80% of divorces, and divorce is much harder on men than women. It's no secret that men get screwed in divorce court and child custody arrangements.
Add to that the fact that casual sex is the norm now thanks to the women's sexual revolution, so sex is no longer a motivator for men to get married like it used to be.
It's true what they say about women being the gatekeepers to sex and men the gatekeepers to relationships. That's because women have more to lose in sex, and men have more to lose in relationships/marriage. But today, men are taking their gatekeeper role much more seriously than women are taking theirs. Women have made marriage too expensive and sex too cheap, and the institution of marriage is dying as a result. That hurts both sexes, but in the long run it will hurt women more than men.
it doesn't have to be anyone's fault but if we are to investigate the chicken vs the egg scenario of who started what, the one thing that is for certain is that women have always historically dictated the dating market. the only times this never happened were when certain men namely tyrants and warlords decided to take matters into their own hands otherwise women have for the most part selected their men and certain behaviors in them. needing a man who would be a good provider, protector and good father was ideal. nowadays women don't need that, at least not immediately so they choose based on hotness and popularity only to settle later on when their desirability runs out. why bother with relationships these days when there's free sex for everyone at least there's the potential for free sex for everyone if they try to fit within a certain mold.
I think what you're seeing is the bitter side of both sexes sometimes. Women ask a question in a way that every guy knows is bitter towards the men they've liked and showed no interest and the flip side is men giving their insulting, belittling attitude towards, not necessarily the woman asking the question, but every woman that was bitter towards them and dragged them over hot coals.
u No what your seeing is the difference between some people asking questions and others lashing out due to being bitter
As to relationships I would say its a mix of many factors u can argue women have a part to play sure but it's not close to soly being their fault at all no
As a whole, yes, women who give men negative consequences are why men no longer persue any women.
There are too many women who cry wolf and are offended by mere interest and ruin men's lives, so all the good women are forced to persue men if they want a guy.
i wouldn't say it's "women's fault" in general. it's the fault of the extreme few who keep labeling masculinity as a bad thing. so of course men aren't interested in women who don't want what they are. and if men don't pursue you for a relationship, maybe you followed the wrong trend...
Just because a few men do that and a few women claim to pursue men, the sheer truth of it all is many men still pursue women and 99.9% of women don't pursue us. You're looking at a very small percentage of people on a website with a lot of bitter people and painting a picture that doesn't reflect reality.
Women do not initiate, it's so rare that it's akin to a unicorn.
I would say it's really more society's fault than women's fault, but women have definitely produced a climate where the concept of a relationship isn't very appealing.
Individual decent women are suffering because so many of their contemporaries are shady, and a lot of men are too jaded to understand that having a few bad experiences does not mean "all women are like that."
When I'm single I'm usually the happiest, even if that means no sex.
That's how bad most women got. I distrust them by default.
Yes, it is women's fault at least 80% women's fault.
Look at the ages of those so called "men" they are not mature enough to handle a relationship so they talk shit. Not all men are this way
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