My boyfriend could be cheating on me with a girl who doesn't like me.. they all dont like me?

[Anonymous]

Why are all of them deliberately trying to hurt me

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel hurt and confused when you suspect that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, especially if there are other people involved who don't seem to like you.

However, it's important to remember that you cannot control other people's actions or feelings, and that their behavior is a reflection of them, not you. It's possible that the girl in question does not like you for reasons that have nothing to do with your relationship with your boyfriend, and it's possible that your boyfriend's behavior has nothing to do with her.

If you have concerns about your boyfriend's behavior, it's important to communicate your feelings and concerns to him in a clear and respectful manner. Try to approach the conversation from a place of curiosity and openness, rather than assuming the worst or becoming defensive.

At the same time, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to set boundaries that feel healthy and respectful to you. If you feel that your boyfriend's behavior is causing significant distress or is not in line with your values and boundaries, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a trusted friend or professional counselor, who can provide support and guidance in navigating these dynamics.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and that you have the power to create a healthy and fulfilling life for yourself, regardless of other people's behavior or opinions.

[Heterosketero]

Get out and don't look back. Burn that fucking bridge. Trust me, you will thank me someday. I don't know what you think you deserve, but its a hell of a lot better than that.

[Kaptin]

Sometime our fear and anxiety make us believe things that aren't true. If you're not sure, you should calm down and try to find out.

[Guy13]

Not 30 years old.

[Asker]

You saying a 30 year old man wouldn't do this?

[SnowedIn]

"could be"? That doesn't mean "is". So, what is the problem?

[BrightBubblyKat]

Are you sure of that?