Why do all my boyfriends cheat on me?

[Anonymous]

honestly I’ve had enough of being a good woman in this shitty generation of men. All my previous partners cheat on me & I’ve never cheated on anyone before. How do i attract this bullshit vibe?

I don’t have a type (expect for shitty character clearly) all 4 of my exs are completely different (looks , background, social status , age , family) yet I end up with the rubbish men.

I really don’t know what I’m doing wrong here !!

is it too much to ask for someone faithful? Are all men like this? should just pick the least rotten fruit out of the fruit bowl and settle? … feels like every time I just waist my time / energy.

[jahaims]

You are bad at reading people so you can't find a proper man.

[Asker]

But they all cheat. I don’t even go for my type I try to go for people that arnt my type. I think I need to start doing lie detector tests before getting into any relationship 🤣

[ChicoFromThe305]

You seem to be bad at picking them, usually there's always signs

[LazerBean]

Because you're bad at picking men

[Anonymous]

You have poor judgment

[Asker]

But they all cheat. I don’t even go for my type I try to go for people that arnt my type. I think I need to start doing lie detector tests before getting into any relationship 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Guys who do this type of (virtual) cheating you're talking about are either, 1- not ready to be in a real committed relationship or 2- they like you but don’t see you as a long term match, so they are still shopping around.
So my advice would be: don’t be so quick to get exclusive with a guy. Cuz it seems like you’re not screening your potential boyfriends well enough.
Even when he’s the one to ask you to be exclusive—the harsh truth is that sometimes guys just wanna lock you down in the here and now; it doesn’t necessarily mean they see you as a long term partner. My point is if you prolong the non exclusive dating period, you’ll get a much better sense of a guy’s true character (ie gauge if he’s emotionally mature and ready for an actual commitment) AND how into you he actually is (ie. If you guys are a good long term match) I’d say to wait minimum 6 months before becoming exclusive.

[Opinion Owner]

Regardless if it's a man or woman doing the cheating cheating is rampant these days. With texting, dating sites, social media, etc. , people just get addicted to the validation and attention and "shopping" for something else. This is why not rushing into relationships and not ignoring red flags is important.