What can I do to make guys approach me in college? I'm 18 & haven't dated once and don't want to seem too desperate?

[jennygoldie_04]

[Anonymous]

When a woman isn't being approached it generally comes down to one of two things

1. Her effort or lack thereof. So many erroneously think men make the first move. Yes, guys may generally do the majority of the approaching but women actually make the first move by signaling him her WILLINGNESS to be approached. This is why overly flirtatious women are typically the most successful. Because inexperienced guys are stupid we generally can't tell the difference between a woman who likes us, or is just pretending to like us for attention.

2. How realistic is she about her marketability vs. Her standards. All women want that unicorn that checks every box she has. But is no where near his level.

Now the only question is which one is it with you?

[strlb]

Depends on what exactly you're trying to achieve. Dating, sex or just to be noticed. Show off you're lovely smile and get involved with activities that you enjoy. Brushing up against guys that you are interested in, talking with them, study groups etc. Best of luck! DM always open

[Avicenna]

Be friendly. Smile a lot, start convos.

[RockyHammock]

Put yourself in a position where you are around guys, doing something you're into. Check out the meetup app or something similar.

[Jersey2]

The Sorority girls as my college used to put so, etching Behring their ears to attract guys. (It was their ankles).

[Jersey2]

Well that needs correction.

The Sorority girls as my college used to put something behind their ears to attract guys. (It was their ankles). A sorority girl told me that joke.

[zagor]

Do social stuff. Join a hiking group or something. Join coed intermurals if you can do sports.

[SunnyRS]

Just be optimistic, smile and look positive.
Talk to people, when you do that people will think you are easy to approach and talk to.

[Guy13]

Go to socials.

[notwoke]

most likely the answer is lose weight and be less opinionated

[wannabecuck-2]

Go clubbing or get a hobby. Or take up a hobby of the person u wanna talk to.

[najekim]

It's the 21st century. Ask them out.

[In_Trance]

be yourself and the right guy will