Guys, Only younger guys approach me? What should I do?

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I am 37 and moderately attractive. I cannot meet men my own age they are not interested. However , men from 24-32 are nothing but complimentary and are begging to date me. Not struggling neither - young men with careers, from good families etc. I have always been skeptical about taking this seriously but since men my age to 45 aren't into me I may give it a chance. Men please educate me on the appeal to an older woman as I've never understood it?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I think it's time for your second wind. And hit your prime.. you're at that age to where you feel like you're older you're old at the same time kind of young and when younger guys are hitting on you it feels good to experience that but you're looking for that maturity I say you have to experience both

If a younger guy has this s*** together and proves it by the way he treats you I say go for it.

Because you are just sitting your prime

And once you hit your prime things will change for you a lot of older guys want to know why you're single why you've been single for so long and it's written all over your face and your attitude

They think that you're tainted are there something just wrong with you and that's not the case

I would have to say if younger guys are trying to pick up on you I would say that you're very good looking you're confident you carry yourself well and you'd be a good catch and there is something that is very hot about you

When you hit your prime everything changes when you're confident within you can see it on your face the way you walk the way you talk the way you act and there's nothing holding you back that's what older guys are looking for

And it seems like they can only find that in younger women that are carefree they know what they want

Younger girls want to get up and do stuff and that's what guys want to do like I said it becomes a moment in time for women just about your age they're not sure if they're older or still younger or what so they kind of just stand still and want to stay home bodies and not do much guys your age want to get up and go they want to do things have fun laugh be energetic

And it's funny saying that
Because that's what younger guys want they want the older woman that wants to stay home and be in bed 24 hours a day LOL because he wants to experience that with her that's why younger guys like older women.. and that's why older women like younger guys

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

You are still better off finding yourself an older guy even though you are having trouble and just ignore those younger guys’ those younger guys’ just want to sleep with a cougar pretty much , older guys’ like myself prefer younger women , a younger women that actually has a heart that knows what it means to be in a relationship that knows how to give the same way she receives , that values commitment and loyalty, I dated some older girls’ before and sadly they all turned to disaster because they had so much baggage and mental issues from previous guys’ they have been with that treated her like shit so she would take her anger out on me because she felt she was more matured than me by her being older , The truth is most girls’ want a guy she can look up to that she feels safe and protected by that she feels is mature , when I started dating Younger girls’ they knew how to value a relationship because they felt safe and protected and heard by me , she looked up to me instead of looking down at me. So don’t give up on trying to find an older guy , older guys’ love younger girls ‘ just these days there are j lot of bad seeds out there , but eventually you will find a good one that will cherish you and respect you as long as you cherish and respect him

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Pussy doesn't have age! 🤷‍♂️😅😂

noohair · Answer

I think older guys have had a relationship with someone your age and they were poisoned. They look for younger women because of that. Younger guys look at you as a short term thing. There is also the issue of, why is this older woman single, there must be something wrong with her. Social media has ruined dating and courtship.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Raw speculation  then: when there is a specific appeal to older age range then I suppose it's going to be from people unsatisfied with people in their age range, maturity is often invoked. Tbh though, I think the topic is infinitely more complex than what I said.

DerekC321 · Answer

I think if they're attracted to you and you're attracted to them, why not? Sound like you've already had some nice fun ☺️

DrPepper12 · Answer

Where to begin? EVERYTHING! Go ride a young bull instead of the aging stud put out to pasture!

bowenw · Answer

Older women can be more interesting as they have more life experience. There may also some motherly attraction going on.

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

Older women are more mature, visibly and mentally, and younger men may feel a desire to experience an older woman since they may be uncharted territory.

Juxtapose · Answer

Man you're only 2 years older than me and you're talking like you're some granny.

I feel old!

But regardless, just enjoy it. Why not? I can't speak for those guys and why they do what they do but it's working for you.

nevooo · Answer

They’re gonna drill you and disappear.

Ariesman81 · Answer

Have fun playing Mommy

MasterKS · Answer

Its a charm of attitude, experience and most important  maturity!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Usually less drama than younger.

Yellovv · Answer

They like mature woman mostly that's why.

Anonymous · Answer

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