Guys, Ok boys, I have a question for you, I'm 28 but I look 15, what do I do? I want to attract a man my age and not have him think I'm just cheeky?

[Annason64]

[SteveSmith1985]

I first thought, what? You're 28 but you look 15? so I clicked on your profile picture. Granted it's a single picture, and I have no idea how representative it is of how you really look.

You do definitely look young for your age. I certainly think (hope) 15 is a bit of an exaggeration (?)

I am wondering two things when I read this question:

1. How much has looking younger affected your ability to attract men your age?

You see... I'm asking you, rather than plowing forward as though assuming something like "I can't see any 28 year old guy being put-off by how young this girl looks"

No, I have put my foot in my mouth too many times plowing ahead assuming something like that.

Then you come back with like 6 horrific examples of guys your age, unquestionably rejecting you because they thought you looked too young.

and I feel like such an asshole.

No. I am asking questions (politely)

Is possible that this isn't having the effect on your love-life that you think? Is there any chance this is something that you worry about but guys don't care about? (I have seen someone do that once or twice)

2. Is it possible that its not your looks that make people see you as cheeky?

I've known girls (when I was younger) who had the young-face thing... but were nothing close to what you might call "cheeky". You couldn't treat these girls that way, because... well... you wouldn't want to, it didn't seem to fit... and the girl would not be having it. At all. Not for a second. She would shut-that-shit-DOWN. Immediately,

Is there any possibility... that something about you other than your looks... is responsible for part of the "cheeky" thing.

Also, while we're at it, what exactly do you mean by "cheeky"? We should make sure we mean the same thing.

I hesitate to say more, before getting the answer to those questions. Or I will for sure put my foot in my mouth.

[ohsheeT]

Just be yourself because if you try to do something you don't do.. he will feel that

[MysticDevice]

Well, I have friends with a similar issue. The best thing I can say it it's how carry yourself and the kind of energy you put out.

As far as how to actually do that I'm not sure I can say.

[zombiewoof]

Be happy you look young, and some guys love that, a guy that is not interested because you have a son, he is not worthy of you

[LiamS95]

You're probably some guys fantasy cone true. Sorry that's a bit shallow, but possibly true.

[PaleDale]

I think everyone will work out, I wouldn't worry.

[Anonymous]

You look young, but not minor young.

[vj0090]

Is that ur real pic?

[Annason64]

Yes it is