Why do only guys that are younger than me hit on me and ask me out?

[Anonymous]

Why do you think this is? I'm 19. Literal middle schoolers & hs freshmen ask me out. This has happened multiple times now 😹 I want attention from college aged guys. I'm not in college right now and haven't been yet, so I guess I'm not around guys that age much. But it makes me laugh cause these little dudes are always shooting their shot with me.

[one1wild00]

You may look much younger than you are. so the younger people may think you are their age. I have the issue of people thinking I'm 10 - 12 years younger than I am. if you want the college crowd, you might think about hanging around colleges and the eating places nearby and see what happens.

[Asker]

I don't think so.. I look my age. Maybe they think I look theirs 🤷‍♀️. Oh good suggestion I will try hanging around there

[Loth2770]

The reason is simple. Males are naturally inclined to be attracted to women who exhibit maturity, specifically biological maturity. At that younger age, guys just go with what their hormones say, and they usually prefer someone who looks like they could bear and raise children. Of course, they don’t realize that, but it’s biologically wired in them. That’s usually why younger guys are attracted to older girls.

[ohsheeT]

Well first of all you must be beautiful hey when I was younger I liked older women all the way up into their forties LOL I didn't start dating anybody my own age until I was 27 I don't think and that was going out or seeing a 47 year old lady when I was 16 to 17. Don't worry your time will come and in some cases just because thereolderdoesnt mean therebetter

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be around the same height as they are. I mean if you want older guys then best to hang out around them. You haven’t ever had a college guy ask you out?

[Asker]

Oh that's true I am 4'11. Yea I don't hang around older guys, but I don't hang around younger ones either. Nope I've never had one ask me out. College guys from different states or countries have given me compliments online. But I'm wondering why they don't approach me here when I go out

[BarryLiverstone]

There are lots of reasons why guys don’t approach you when you go out. Just like reasons why you don’t approach them. For example I’m over 6 foot.. wouldn’t you feel intimidated if I walked up to you as that’s a big height difference?

[Asker]

That is true. And yes I would feel a bit intimidated lol

[RavVid]

I think you are on the mark here BarryLiverstone.

One1wild00 they are good points too.

Asker, just wondering if the way you dress could be a factor too. Don't think there would be much difference HS and college but just thought it worth a mention.

[BarryLiverstone]

Lol at least you are honest. How could I act so that you felt less intimidated?

[Asker]

There's no way around me feeling initially intimidated so just be nice and I'll feel comfortable :)

[BarryLiverstone]

Unfortunately I’m nice by nature lol. How will you let me know you feel comfortable?

[Asker]

By being receptive and talkative, making eye contact, smiling. When I'm uncomfortable it's hard for me to make eye contact and I don't talk as much lol

[BarryLiverstone]

That only raises more questions lol. But don’t wanna jam up your question here. Feel free to follow me on here :)

[FilmGuy93]

Guys older than you probably think you look too young.

[Wise4myage]

You must have a hot body.

[Danny_dan92]

No idea