Guys, are cute girls who aren't constantly half naked ever capable of being more attractive than the hott barbiedoll always barely clothed types?

[Anonymous]

So the guy im seeing is a golden glove mma fighter/ boxer , like a very well known & popular in my city... he constantly has these really hott barbie doll types or those chicks that are all thick n tatted up & ghetto...(still sexy) hitting on him :/ im pretty but like i look like I don't know.. im like one of those girls that looks innocent maybe younger than i really am , i have big boobs n butt & nice curves but im also chubby so i have a stomach & i dress like less club sexy n more like summer dresses or leggings n batman tshirts lol once upon a time i was super in shape like these girls n always going out n feeling myself but now im like... um going bowling n getting stoned or working like I don't know i feel insecure :( how can i compete with these sexy & exciting women? Im a fucking mellow little dork :( id rather go swimming or fishing than clubbing... anyways my sister told me he added her on fb & i like started crying:( my sister is a barbie doll ( her nickname is literally mexican barbie) consistently naked (like only the tiniest bits of clothing) & he doesn't even know her... okay he knows her husband.. but i just feel like... woow here we go maybe this is why he was dating me all along he wanted to get closer to her.. or I don't know n then people are always telling how this girl or that girl likes him... i feel defeated i even told him one time (i try to keep my jealousy to myself) " why dont you go fuck one of these hoodrats these "bad bitch" down girls.. like actually god only knows how many other people you fuck, i can't deal with you" n he said " you're completely misreading who i am, please stop saying this" ... my dad has always told me all men are dogs & stuff & my ex constantly cheated on me n drooled over my sister i guess i need to know if just a normal girl could ever be good enough when you can have any girl you want :(
(Sorry if this seemed all over the place im overwhelmed)

[Dandroid1980s]

I knew a girl once who broke up with an ex boyfriend because he was "the hottest guy she ever dated" and she got insecure about all the chicks checking him out. She actually kind of fits the physical description of yourself. She was a cool chick, above average confidence and could hold a good conversation. She was also good looking but there were hotter women out there for sure.

I don't really know if this answers your question but, I suppose if you did break up with him you wouldn't be the first person to do something like this. Plus, if you're like the girl in my story, you can still get a lot of guys and still be a cool confident woman.

[Anonymous]

Put it this way in my opinion id rather date girls and have a relationship with girls who are cute, and when it comes to "hot" girls I'd rather it be one night, and go for confident men cause you don't have to worry about that kind of stuff and try to be more confident to and less insecure because insecurities will ruin you, so if I were you I'd try to find your own happiness and not depend on other people, also join a gym and start exercising it really helps with stress and what not and hey who doesn't want to get in shape anyways hope this helps :)

[Asker]

Actually this really helped thank you, I totally forgot about this post & this is definitely something I've always struggled with & you're right about the working out thing I recently started again & I don't know it kinda helps me stay centered even though it hurts... like omg the pain lol

[Helghast_kitty]

a lot of those women aren't really amazing looking, they just happened to be wearing less clothes. Some girls look amazing even in a conservative outfit.

[Not_Helping]

Well, hotty barely clothed women are advertising their sexual willingness while conservative "cute" women aren't. Simple.

[plinkett]

It's a matter of taste. I can't stand tramps or women who imitate their dress style.