Just because someone likes you or is attracted to you it doesn't mean they want you.
A lot of people feel too vulnerable to "just ask" as people so flippantly advise.
So, it would be nice to hear from everyone about how they would act when they're Attracted but NOT Interested vs. Attracted AND Interested.
Someone I just find attractive but not wanting to date is not someone I'm attracted to. To start with. I'm not blind, I see attractiveness but not everyone makes me tingle, no matter how attractive.
To answer your question: the first someone being attractive but me not being interested: act normal, like with everyone else.
Someone I'm attracted to and therefore also interested: act normally, but maybe if I'm in the mood be flirty and maybeeee if I also wanna get that person and I'm in the mood for it shoot my shot but most of the time I don't care enough lately... so probably just be normal lol
if im not interested in them i'll treat them like everybody else. if i like them i'll be nicer, more smiley, a bit more careful about what i say and how i act, might be a bit flirtatious at times and will try to talk to them more
If I'm attracted but not interested, then I will usually feel very comfortable around them and I won't be afraid to flirt.
... Unless I think they like me. Because that makes things awkward.
For me, attraction and sexual attraction are the same things generally, although we might not act on them, in which case we are very kind and polite.
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