For me an ugly face destroys a good personality. If I don’t find a woman physically attractive, she’s not my type regardless of who she is on the inside. Looks matter to me regardless.
No, personality is not everything. I have always said both physical looks, attractiveness and personality are equally important. Neither of them should be compromised.
I have always said, looks and physical attractiveness does and should matter. However yes importance should not be given only to this aspect while ignoring the personality aspect because if a relationship is based only on looks then it will be shallow, the person would be shallow. It is a shallow mentality.
Hence in combination with physical looks, attractiveness. Personality should be given importance too because that is what truly defines a person. The thought process of the person shows how they will behave and act in certain situations, how the person treats others and behaves with others. Compatibility in personality is what will ensure that there is a common ground which means there will be less disagreements, less fights and arguments which is good.
Hence personality is very important but that is not everything in a relationship. No.
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You can be physically attracted to the other person, but that attraction fades over time as either their age or other people come along. Personality is what gives the relationship staying power.
When people say "personality is everything in a relationship", they're not discarding the attractive looks, they're simply stating that it isn't the only thing you should be looking for.
Let's say you have two people interested in you.
One is the most beautiful you've ever met. You take her out and attempt to have a conversation. You try talking about your interests, politics, sports, some news articles, see where she stands.
At first you’re practically excited, you can't believe you're with this goddess. After a half hour, you look like you’re about to fall asleep. She's boring as fuck, treats the wait staff poorly. You wouldn't be with this lady if it weren't for that sweet ass. The final straw is when she treats you like garbage
Second one, your friend whom you see walking home from work. She's single, kind of plain, not someone you'd consider. You remember how much fun it was to hang out with her. She’s so fun to talk to it’s not her face you remember. It’s her words, her laugh, the way she celebrates after she gets a strike in your bowling games, etc.
Whom sounds better? Do you really want to focus strictly on those high cheekbones or thick thighs? Or how you feel spending time with this person?
They say men prefer a cute and beautiful face then they do an I'm perfect body. Men can be physically attracted to a woman who has a flawed body but beautiful face. Personality matters more for the long term in my opinion. Personality is important to build a life and have compatibility.
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Looks obviously matter. We all want to date someone we’re physically attracted to.
but personality is still important. Someone could be a 10/10 model, but if their personality sucks and they make a shitty partner then their looks aren’t going to get them far.and I’d say it’s easier for a lot of people to ignore someone’s looks over someone’s personality.
Even if someone isn’t perfect looking, if you’re in love with their personality, you eventually find them physically attractive as well even if you didn’t at first.
it’s possible to fall in love with someone based on personality only. You can’t say the same with looks.Looks and personality are equally important.
If they are not physically attractive to you, you might get along well, but it will stay platonic.
If they are physically attractive, but you hate their personality, you might get off to them in a porno, but you wouldn't wanna be around them in real life.
The ideal for dating someone, is that the person is both hot, and has a great personality.You're not alone. Physical attraction is the prerequisite for most men when it comes to dating women.
It’s hyperbole. Looks isn’t “everything”, personality isn’t “everything”. You gotta start with the basics and when they say personality is everything they mean the person is attractive and has basic hygiene and mental aptitude.
Looks matter. Personality is more important.
Try dating a woman who is all looks and you'll get it.
Because spending a lot of time with a bad person is harder than spending a lot of time with a less than perfect looking one.
Looks fade over time but you still have to get along with your partner.
Ugh, Mr Shallow and insecure returns.
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