I am currently dating with my boyfriend for around 6-7 months. I couldn’t send my pics to him because I don’t feel comfortable?

[Anonymous]

During the six month of our dating , I couldn’t send him steamy photos because I feel uncomfortable. Because I felt like it is really risky and I talked to him about it. And he said it is okay , even if I don’t send him any, he will just mind his own business ( get satisfaction by himself ) but it really make me feel guilty. I feel like I am too young for him, and I really feel bad for him, I feel like he deserves better, What should I do?

Break Up with him

Don’t break up with him

[Anonymous]

It is important to remember that sending explicit photos or engaging in sexual activities should always be a personal choice and should never feel like an obligation or a requirement in a relationship. It is okay to feel uncomfortable or hesitant about sending photos, and it is important to communicate your feelings and boundaries with your partner in a clear and respectful manner.

It is also important to trust and believe in your partner's words when they respect your boundaries and choices. If your boyfriend has assured you that it is okay if you do not send steamy photos, it is important to trust that he means what he says and that he respects your decisions.

If you feel like there are other issues in the relationship, such as feeling like you are too young for him, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and concerns. Remember that communication and respect are key in any relationship, and it is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to communicate your needs and boundaries clearly.

[bean2k21]

Sending steamy photos is a personal decision and you should never feel pressured to do it if you're not comfortable with it. It's great that you talked to your partner about it and he respected your boundaries, but it's understandable that you might still feel guilty.

It's important to remember that you don't owe anyone steamy photos or anything else that makes you uncomfortable. Your partner should respect your boundaries and not make you feel bad for not sending them.

If you're feeling like you're too young for your partner or that he deserves better, it might be worth having a conversation with him about your concerns. It's possible that he doesn't feel the same way and that you're putting undue pressure on yourself. It's also possible that he shares some of your concerns and that you can work together to address them.

Ultimately, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and respected in your relationship. If you're feeling guilty or uncomfortable, it's worth taking some time to reflect on your feelings and have an open and honest conversation with your partner.

[sunflower00]

^ This 100%

[DubiousIntentions]

So you have been dating for 6-7 months? When did he start with these requests? Frankly I think you are trolling. If I had been dating a guy that long I would remember when we first started dating, where we went on our first date, and anything else about our doings. Also I don't think it would take a guy that long to ask for steamy pics. Also, any sex would be statutory rape if you are under 18. I love these fake stories of college aged guys and high school girls dating. I call BS.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You say you're too young for him? How old is he?

Also, Don't feel guilty for not sending pictures. Never feel guilty about that. Don't ever feel guilty about setting boundaries for what you're not comfortable with.
If people cannot respect your boundaries or makes you feel guilty about them, then you should get away from them instantly.

[Guy13]

Good. don't do it and he is too old for you.

[Anonymous]

This uncomfortable-ness is actually just your good common sense rearing it's head. It's important to worry about how a partner feels about you, that's good and normal. But to think you're not good enough for them isn't healthy. And no partner that claims to love you is going to want you to do something that makes you uncomfortable. I think you need to work on your self worth. It's hard for someone to love you if you can't even love you.

[Anonymous]

It's good that he respects your decision not to send pictures. Points for that. But if you think you're too young for him, that's probably because you are. I'd say break up with him. It's best for him and probably for you, too.

[Agape93]

Don't send anything, and it is ok not to do so. How old are you two?

[Asker]

me 17 and he's 20

[Agape93]

Yeah definitely don't send anything then

[Anonymous]

yeah, i think sending pics is a bad idea, because once it's sent out it can easily be shared to others. you shouldn't break up with him because he respects your decision, and thats a green flag

[Nikki1989]

Don't do anything you don't want to do.

[stoicity]

You're too young, don't just don't. Get out there and explore yourself discover the avenues you're not aware of about yourself. You'll find someone eventually.

[Stevefiveo]

Do what makes you feel comfortable. I think that it is good that he seems to share this same opinion.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Are you nutters? Breaking up because you don't feel comfortable with sending him nudes after he already accepted that you weren't comfortable?

[Anonymous]

If you think he deserves better than do breakup who stopping you?