Why do women say they want a high value man when they act, dress, and do things that high value men don't want in a wife?

[Adaeva]

No tattoos, no piercing, no heavy makeup, don't dress like a party girl.

11 times out of 10 when looking for a wife, a high value man will choose the girl next door over a party girl. High value men don't want a wife with tattoos, piercings, heavy makeup. They don't choose party girls, women that are high maintenance and have a shopping addiction. This YouTube video best describes what high value men want in a women when seeking a wife.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that not all women are seeking to attract the same type of man, and that there is no one-size-fits-all answer to what men find attractive in a partner. Additionally, it's important to avoid making sweeping generalizations about women's behavior and appearance.

While some men may prefer women with a more natural appearance and conservative dress, others may find tattoos, piercings, and heavy makeup attractive. Similarly, some men may be attracted to women who enjoy partying and have a more outgoing personality, while others may prefer someone more introverted.

It's also important to note that women should not change their appearance or behavior in order to attract a certain type of man. Rather, they should focus on being true to themselves and finding someone who values and appreciates them for who they are. Ultimately, attraction is a complex and highly personal experience, and what one person finds attractive may not be the same as what someone else finds attractive.

[Adaeva]

Of course that is true of many low value men but not true of high value men.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it’s important to recognize that the definition of a "high value man" can vary widely depending on an individual's personal beliefs, values, and priorities. While some men may prioritize traditional appearance and lifestyle choices in a partner, others may prioritize intelligence, kindness, humor, or other qualities.

It's also important to remember that no one is inherently "low value" or "high value" based on their appearance or lifestyle choices. Everyone has the potential to be a valuable and positive member of society, regardless of their external appearance or preferences.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to focus on building positive and healthy relationships with others based on mutual respect, communication, and compatibility. Don't let societal expectations or labels limit your potential or your ability to find love and happiness.

[exitseven]

I was at the gym this morning and on the way out i notices a girl sitting in the outer office playing with her phone. I had never seen her before but I thought she was pretty. Then I noticed all these random tattoos on her arms and my opinion of her suddenly took a nosedive.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

Feminism brainwashed women into not being wifey materials, overly sexualized and have unreasonable standards. Good men don't want that, they want a good wife who values herself (low body count, no extreme body modifications), who will give them kids (also feminism teaches women to not have kids).
The party girls are only good for fun and will not be chosen for marriage but either short term relationship or one night only

[WaterIsland]

I believe that. Personally, I’m not looking for a woman who is into partying and drinking and all that. Maturity, and a strong connection are things I value. But I’m also not into partying and drinking myself really. So it’s probably also that I want someone similar to me in those regards.


I think that everyone shows maturity (or lack of maturity) in different ways. You’ll see both guys and girls out till 3am partying and drinking instead of getting a good nights rest before work. You’ll see both guys and girls treat others with disrespect. You’ll see both guys and girls take advantage of others for their own gain. List goes on and on.


I think when you see men or women do that, it shows a certain lack of maturity. However, not all people do that stuff. And for some people, their actions match their words. For others, they’re actions don’t match their words.


You just have to stay true to what you’re looking for. Because there are people out there who take things seriously, are mature, value things other than that stuff, and where their actions match their words.


But I’ve never found the appeal. Clearly for some there is some appeal. I’ve never truly understood it tho.

[HighValue]

They believed the lies of feminism, and once they have ruined their looks with tattoos and piercings and have an unacceptable past, they realize that no good man will ever want them. Because of that, they get angry and try to convince more women to make the same mistakes that they made, ruining those women's chances too and continuing with bad advice that is harmful to women.

And when a good quality man turns them down for those reasons, some of them get quite angry and even try to sab6the man at work. (Multiple personal experiences.)

[magiusX26]

awsome qurstion young one and thsnk you for asking it and bringing it forward. as to why, starting to. come across as an ideal (lie) brought upon by modern day feminism that contrary to actual facts, that men want what modern feminism tries to force men to conform to wanting (what feninism tells them they want) in place of our own standards etc.

[magiusX26]

pearl us one of many i follow on a few platforms

[megabamse]

I think that woman should in general think a bit different. They should think "would I like it or have a problem with it, if a man did exactly what I'm doing right now?" I also think it would benefit men to think along the same lines. "Would I like it if a woman did what I'm doing now?" And so on. If "they" can't then why can "you"?

[Anonymous]

If I had to guess? It's probably the double message women get. Being what men want them to be vs. Being a strong independent woman who "does what she wants".

Strength is HAVING power not SHOWING power.

Kudos to you for not being afraid to call a spade a spade.

[notwoke]

because hormones make women unable to use logic, this the reason they should not be any job that involves authority or decision making and not allowed to vote or hold political office. As radical as this sounds, it's actually 100% correct, just not politically correct

[Adaeva]

That might be best. However, if women can't vote many of the laws that favor women might be repealed. Regardless, I don't believe it is possible to prevent women from voting because women are at least half of the voting age population, almost certainly women would not vote to not be allowed to vote and at least 20 percent of men would agree. Therefore, if put up for a vote, it would fail 70 to 30.

[Anonymous]

truth

[Adaeva]

Certainly, I'm not an expert. However, after watching a number of her YouTube videos, I believe Pearl is. For a one-night-stand men, even high value men, are not choosy. Peal said, "High value men" don't marry hoes (i. e., women with high body count) and women with tattoos, piercing, and that women who party every weekend, etc. are hoes.

[Heterosketero]

In one word: Hypergamy. Women pursue who is beside them or above them. Clearly, it isn't working out so great for the majority of either gender.

[Heterosketero]

I should dinstinguish, Hypergamy is completely natural for our species, like bias, it is biological imperative. I think our notions of romance confuse our animal drives to procreate and continue our species and leads to much conflicting politics in love. If my grandmother had chosen a weak unprepared man, I might be sick, or even unborn.

[FilmGuy93]

People lack self awareness in a truly amazing way.

[Guardian45]

I had no idea you were a recognized authority on men 2 or 3 times your age.

[Adaeva]

I'm not but Pearl is and I trust her judgement.

[Guardian45]

Yaaa, I would NOT entrust my life with her

[Adaeva]

The proof is in the pudding. What she said applies to the two American girls that married royalty--Diana and Grace Kelly.

[Guardian45]

While that is true. Two women is hardly the basis for ALL men!

[Guardian45]

Diana was English, not American

[DWornock]

Sluts are sluts but they still want the best.

[PointTaken]

I'm curious, what kind of man I'd considered high value?

[Chthou95]

Because women have never had to be asked what they bring to the table or why a high value man should choose them

[baseball_del_tuono]

Because they ain’t got no class

[KrakenAttackin]

An excellent observation.

[Tstrbrainer]

Confused by media?