My boyfriend don't have a job. Only way he get money is if he sale some of his belongings. What should I do as his woman?

[Anonymous]

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He lives in my house but can't pay his half of rent or electricity

[Anonymous]

It's important to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about your financial situation and expectations for the relationship. It's understandable that you may feel frustrated or overwhelmed if he is unable to contribute to the household expenses, especially if you are shouldering the majority of the financial burden.

You could start by saying something like, "I wanted to talk to you about our financial situation. I'm feeling stressed and overwhelmed because I'm covering most of the expenses for our household. I understand that you're in a tough spot right now, but I need to know that we're both committed to finding a solution."

It's important to listen to his perspective and to work together to come up with a plan that meets both of your needs. This could involve discussing ways that he can contribute to the household or finding ways for him to generate income, such as applying for jobs or starting a small business.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with in terms of the financial dynamics of your relationship. It's important to set clear boundaries and expectations, and to prioritize your own well-being and financial stability. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who is committed to making the relationship work, and who is willing to put in the effort to support you and your shared goals.

[serious]

What should you do?

The answer should be obvious. I mean you need to ask yourself do you need a man in your life who has no job, no objectives, goals in life?

[Asker]

He never took me out or help me in any kind of way. At this point I'm fed up.

[serious]

That is what I am saying.

[serious]

I am sure a woman will always love men who have goals, objectives in life. Men who work hard in their profession to make money and still make time for love, romance with their woman.

I am sure that is the kind of man a woman likes so I am surprised you are still tolerating him (your boyfriend).

[serious]

Given your situation, you should know what to do. Break up would be good option for you.

[serious]

Relationship is based on trust and respect more than just love alone. As long as there is trust and respect, love will remain intact and so the relationship.

Once the trust and respect is lost. Love will vanish in no time and the relationship will also die in due course.

Your boyfriend being how I am sure you have already lost respect for him and so you know what to do next.

[ThomasDavid1989]

I have a job, yet, i don't have a girlfriend, why is this?

[UniquelyBasic]

Make him get a job or kick him out

[In_Trance]

kick him in the ass to get a job