If a guy was texting you everyday and he suddenly stops, then comes back out of the blue, what do you say?

[Anonymous]

So, if a guy were texting me everyday and suddenly stops, I assume he is more than likely is talking to someone else. So, when he comes back what should I say

[Anonymous]

If a guy stops texting you everyday and then comes back out of the blue, it is understandable to feel confused or unsure about how to respond. It may be helpful to communicate your feelings and expectations clearly to him.

You could say something like, "Hey, it's good to hear from you again. I noticed that you stopped texting me for a while, and I wasn't sure what was going on. Can you help me understand what happened? I value clear communication and honesty in any relationship, and I want to make sure we are on the same page moving forward."

This approach allows you to express your feelings and expectations without being accusatory or confrontational. It also gives him the opportunity to explain his behavior and clarify his intentions.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and honesty in any relationship, and it is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable with his behavior or responses, it may be best to reassess whether this relationship is meeting your needs and expectations.

[OfMiceandMen]

He likely just needed a break? I know for myself, texting only goes so far, it doesn't substitute for a real conversation. I actually find texting to be the worst for conversing as so many things can be taking out of context.

[OfMiceandMen]

my bad "taken"

[Asker]

I don't know I feel like if a guy suddenly just disappears, it means he's seeing someone else

[OfMiceandMen]

It could mean anything, maybe he had to take his pet to the vet, or someone he knows is sick, parents visited, there could be a number of reasons he didn't text back. Sometimes, it is worth giving the person the benefit of the doubt, until they actually do something that confirms they are seeing someone else.

[UniquelyBasic]

What's the context of your relationship though?

[Asker]

TBH the relationship is weird. We have mainly only been communicating through texts and haven't seen each other in a few months. So, I wanted to ask here where we stand and he kinda disappeared

[Anonymous]

"Well hello there. Fuckin prick"