Is It Bad that I Only Care About Dating Woman with Shared Interest?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question because I was wondering why is it bad that I don't care if she has her finance in order & has her shit together. All else equal I'd rather be a bachelor than a dating woman without no shared hobbies.

[Guy13]

Yeah man, I a the same way. If we share interests and pursuits, to some degree, we will have the same lifestyle and living pattern. Her finances are not a concern for me but her "shit" as in mental and emotional stability is important to me. It is such a large conglomeration of stuff that makes a situation of two into one work.

[Shiningtempest]

@Guy13 I value shared interests & pursuits because I want to form strong bond with a person.

[Leopard23]

Your narrowing your options. My wife has some shared intrests but we compliment each other. She challenges me and I challenge her by doing stuff that I would never do normally and vice versa

[Shiningtempest]

@leopard23 I'd rather be a bachelor than dating a woman without shared hobbies. I intuitively know that woman who doesn't share my interest will never "compliment" me.

[Leopard23]

You may go gay then