What career/job would prevent you from dating a person?

[PointTaken]

There are so many different careers/jobs. I started to wonder if there are any I would turn a person down because they had such career/job. Are there any that come to your mind?

[magiusX26]

overlooking i will. not date period.

stripper
porn
onlyfans
club promoter
bottle girl
modeling
fashion designer
personal trainer
personal assistant
secratary
political office
religious office (such as preacher)
motivational speaker
CEO
company president
company vice president
sex therapist
singer/dancer/actor (possible exception exist)
feminist/activist (possible exceptions exist)
prostitute/call girl/ escort (and many other names that mean the same thing)
pro athelete
wary of phycologists/phychiatrists
alphabet soup (fbi, cia, dea, cdc and other such groups)
heiress (child of business mogel)

roughly anything where she would likely try pyshing her personal ideals or agenda onto me or that would come with forced big secret keeping and things that would force her into bad situations as a part of fame. also coming from money as it grwatly increases the chances she does not know the real value of things. and incase y'all missed it, anytging that has a high chance of her sleeping with clients/customers. so roughly around 70% of women these days.

[magiusX26]

keep in mind that not all i listed will be an auto no but would have her starting way behind in chances.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Thank you for not saying "sex worker". I'm so tired of everyone being afraid to offend a whore

[magiusX26]

i mite would use the term just to keep from typing out or saying all the list it entails. so convenience not to. spare anyone's feelings. i could go through and list some other traits (often part of certain jobs/careers) that are a lot like this list too. such as the culture of being woke.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's a fair point

[magiusX26]

tbh, the whoring part is why tge modeling, bottle girl, club promoter too besides the obvious porn, stripper, only fans, and protitute

[magiusX26]

someone asking a different question reminded me of another job set that i would be wary of, astrology or most other new age things.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yeah I'd probably avoid those people too lol

[magiusX26]

thing is i am not offended by mostn if snyn of these proffessions but i slso know of somewhat hidden troubles they bring to a relationship.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Like they're workaholics?

[magiusX26]

such as CEO types are going to often be too masculine as in argumenative, aggressive, and attempts at being dominant. also more likely to be manipulative.

[PointTaken]

@WanderingLoveWizard I work every night 11 -13 hour shifts. Like that kind of workaholic?

[magiusX26]

its not the workaholic part to me thats an issue, seeing as any job can have that with it.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh that's true

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@PointTaken
Damn, you put in a shift!

[PointTaken]

@WanderingLoveWizard paying off everything but they need the help. Made my credit excellent in less than a year.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@PointTaken Good for you man. That's awesome

[Luopio27]

This is a boss level answer

[Iron_Man]

Maybe you’re better off dating a maid

[magiusX26]

ty for mho

[magiusX26]

@ironman wow! way to not comprehend a thing written out. your comment implies looking for someone to baby/mother/take care of me yet nothing said remotely goes in that direction. oh and if you stop and think about it maids kind of fall under that higher risk of sleeping with clients thing as hired servants ( especially maids ) have a lot of historical refferences of falling in love with or being forced into sexual dilliances with employers/clients going as far back as recorded history goes up to current events. somewhere in the slightly more distant history is a who slew of bastard children of royals/nobles via maids.

[Miristheiss]

Sure, lots of careers.

First anything that morally offends me or disgusts me or is a violation of intimacy as a partner.

Any nude modeling of any type, sex work, stripping (even if she ever did it in the past), prostitution (even if in the past), online nudes (even if she did it in the past). Any form of acting asking for nudity or love scenes with someone else.

I wouldn't have dated anyone who traveled for work. That's a deal breaker and she'd need to turn down any jobs or promotions that add travel to the job. If she took the job then we'd just break up.

Anything causing a long distance relationship such as being in the military and being shipped around and deployed... etc.

Any job that has a crazy schedule or long hours or calls her away unexpectedly, or is a shift completely opposite of mine. Doctor's or lawyers for example with 60-80 hour weeks and jobs that take all of her time... etc.

Outside of these specific types of situation then I'd not really care what she did.

[4ngelic]

trash collector - the smell

drug dealer - i mean obvious

child porn maker/sex trafficker/pimp - duh

some career to do with furries, weird sex fetishes, or anything super weird - i dont want someone with an embarrassing ass job

military (if he's very highly susceptible to be deployed for very long times or often) - i need my boyfriend to not be away for over 6 months at a time and stuff

if he's above uni age and isn't studying or doesn't have plans to get a better job, he wants a serious relationships, and is from a poor background, minimum wage jobs - call me shallow but if it looks like he's going to be poor for the decades to come thats a turn off. if someone is poor and its going to be complicated to be married to them and even more to have kids and raise them well. plus in general i'm going to have to maybe get my parents to help him financially or if i have job i'm going to have to buy everything and that would suck. my family is wealthyish too so would rather have someone that has a more similar live upbringing ya know

anything to do with sewers, cleaning toilets - smell, hygiene

[PointTaken]

The smell would be bad. It might linger through the house too. I didn't think of child porn makers. That is just wrong on so many levels.

[ChillaxingLove]

You do know garbage collectors make 6 figures lol

[MikeTheBartender]

Yeah trash guys make serious coin

[ElGato31]

Chef or anyone in the restaurant business, medical personnel, they would never have time to do anything together, soldiers, police, I wouldn't want to worry about them every day.

[Miristheiss]

I'm not knocking your choices, everyone has their own standards... I was just surprised to see restaurant business. I haven't heard bad things about being it that. What is it about that career that would be the issue?

[ElGato31]

@Miristheiss the shifts? People in hospitality finish working after 11, but worse case when after 2-3 am. I would be impossible to spend a night together. They work when other people have fun, Friday, Saturday, at holidays, Christmas etc.
That's why I wouldn't want to be with someone who works in the service industry in general

[Avicenna]

Any type of sex workers (including being a "madam", stripper, porn actress, or OnlyFans slut), social worker, police officer or other law enforcement officer, corrections officer, parole/probation officer, a woman who travels a lot for a living, a political activist (in the broadest sense of the term), politician, politician's staffer, a woman who works in collections, a prosecutor, a professional gambler, flight attendant, pilot, member of the media.

[SteveSmith1985]

"Sex Work" (in the broadest possible meaning of the term)

[ChillaxingLove]

Military. I love my military people, however I understand what it takes to be a military spouse and I can’t do it. Being away for many months is difficult. Handclap for military spouses you are veterans in your own way.

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't date any woman who works in a male dominated industry. These women are either way over fucked, or they become very masculine. Also, I agree about never dating a sex worker.

Other professions to avoid are Flight Attendant, nurse, and bar tender.

[mobiusforniner]

Female engineer. Been there. They require you be able to mentally play 4D chess and out think them. Its exhausting, mentally draining, and depressing.

[itsalyssaagain]

I would only date someone with a university level career.

[PointTaken]

What do you mean by university level?

[itsalyssaagain]

University graduate and then working within that field

[PointTaken]

Oh. Makes sense. I almost got my bachelor degree. Had to stop for a couple reasons. I couldn't get a job in that field without experience and can't get experience without working in that field. Also, finances.

[itsalyssaagain]

Yeah I think it’s also more expensive in some parts of the world… this is a preference from me because intellectually I believe you learn so much at university but also it offers a stable career

[MikeTheBartender]

My best year I cleared 200k, I average 150k never finished college and no desire to.

[itsalyssaagain]

Good for you

[Miristheiss]

Everyone has their own tastes, I just found this one interesting (like the other lady who listed restaurant business).
So if someone starts their own business out of high school and hits it big and brings some new product or idea to the market and they are wildly successful... you'd be like "well, they didn't get a degree and take all those super important humanities classes, I definitely don't want this highly successful tycoon." I mean Steve Jobs who started Apple and Mark Zuckerberg (Facebook), Bill Gates (Microsoft/Windows), Michael Dell (Dell technologies), Michael Bloomberg... etc.

Hey, I get the "I don't want to date a bum" aspect but lots of business owners are super successful and they start their own companies and don't have or need the formal university system diploma.

You'd turn down successful people IF they didn't have the paper to prove they took English 101, Women's studies, Accounting 101, History... etc. ?

[itsalyssaagain]

Money is important and stability is important but my reason for only dating university graduates is not because of money.

[Labokachulaa]

I respect them all, but I personally couldn't be with someone who is a sex worker. OR someone who is a entertainer (in that same field).

[Anonymous]

Even in the name of friendship, if she is a therapist, psychologist or a psychiatric, she won't stand a chance in hell.


People of their field have stigmatized and traumatised me for life.

[PointTaken]

That really sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

The view of the world is shaped on the experiances of each indevidual. Good experiances create trust and bad ones hate.

Thank you for taking my point well.

[PointTaken]

Agree. I've been through enough bad ones, I don't trust. Can't because once I do, they fuck me over. Not just relationships but "friends" also.

[LazerBean]

Any sort of sex worker or someone whose paycheck comes from the government.

[Luopio27]

That must include public school teachers?

[LazerBean]

Yup.

[Luopio27]

If its not a secret, please enlighten me via private message or in here.

[LazerBean]

Enlighten you about what

[Luopio27]

Why all employees of government is red flag, a no go zone in dating for you! I mean all governments have their rotten eggs in them but some are still good.

[Littlejugs99]

Drug dealer. Basically any proffession that robs people

[HighValue]

If it was something I see as immoral, or if it is something that requtravel for days or to be on call.

[Potteplante]

Sex workers, sailors, truck drivers - anyone who's away from longer periods of time.

[Adam1978]

Criminals, gamblers, prostitutes, escorts, scammers,

[Anonymous]

Bailiff. Debt collector. Pest control. Butcher. Anything that goes against my values really. People that are in jobs where they have to do things involving aggression etc that I don’t tend to generally agree with.

[Still-alive]

That go for cops or soldiers too?

[SteveSmith1985]

Debt collector. I forgot that one. I agree. In fact, I'm going to say any job that primarily feeds itself on human suffering. Thank you. You helped me learn something about myself. 🙂

[Iron_Man]

What about pawnshop dealers? I don’t like those people.

[SteveSmith1985]

@Iron_Man Yes I would include that as someone fed primarily by human suffering

[Iron_Man]

@SteveSmith1985 Right

[Opinion Owner]

@SteveSmith1985 you’re welcome ☺️

[Opinion Owner]

@Still-alive let’s just use some common sense and say that those who are using it within good reason to protect are valued, and obviously those that don’t are not.

[Iron_Man]

What’s wrong with being a butcher cutting up meat to eat

[Opinion Owner]

@Iron_Man I don’t agree with any kind of suffering. I think lots of humans are still ignorant to animal suffering. I’m not saying people shouldn’t eat meat, but it should be humane, and butchery is a part of that chain, I think people that do it have no emotion on that level of feeling for the animal generally so they wouldn’t be someone I could click with.

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve spent my life around animals. I see how feeling, compassionate, emotional and intelligent they are. I don’t like ignorance or carelessness. People who don’t value animals seem to have those traits.

[Iron_Man]

I’m not talking about killing the animal I’m talking about when the meat is all separated the meat like chopping it into Stesks

[Iron_Man]

Steaks

[Opinion Owner]

@Iron_Man it’s still an animal, being able to butcher it like it’s nothing still feels a bit too detached from compassion for me.

[Iron_Man]

Well, how do we eat? Even if you have a chicken it’s the same thing

[Opinion Owner]

@Iron_Man I’m vegetarian, I survive quite easily.

[genericname85]

any sort of sex work. unless they are maybe producer or camera woman not actively doing any sex related things themself.

[Shiningtempest]

I would never date a woman who works as model, CEO, law enforcement, doctor, lawyer, or athletes because stress of their work would interfere with dating life.

[Marked_Man]

Prostitute, onlyfans hoe, abortionist, pornstar

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Travels far too much.
Anything dangerous.
Anything immoral like stripping.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Fast food workers-lazy

Grocery store workers-lazy

sex workers- 304s

Such people I avoid.

[clampfan101]

Anything I’d consider unethical. Otherwise I wouldn’t care.