Im way too shallow piece of shit to get real relationship, real love. Im in love with looks, and nothing more. So it would be scientifically impossible to stay in love when the looks fade away.
I didn't choose what I was atracted to. I envy those who dont have my shallow genes.
I have made my peace with the truth. What we humans are atracted to is not a choice, unlike leading people on.
Going out with a girl or having sex with her for wrong reasons is worse than being single virgin for life. Same goes for atractive girls doing the same with me for wrong reasons, like money, pity or anothe ulterior motive.
My shallowness is biological so there is no human to blame.
I do believe so, but the fact of the matter is, it's not necessary that you would find them if you don't put efforts. You have to work for it to find that someone.
I've met a few women over the years who could've been "the one", but recently. I'm thinking I blew what shot I had at a successful LTR so now I'm just OK with being single. I don't think it's going to happen for me. I hope you find someone you're happy with.
God has mad second half for everyone, so surely you will find your love, why you so disappointed, here on GAG are so many guys who are in search of a girl like you, only you have to take advance step
I sometimes feel it's who you attract I feel like if we are complete as a person we will for sure find somebody complete just like us but we need to work on it we need to be complete and not half a person so we attract another half and then we become attached which is not healthy Tell me what you think and thank you so much for writing
No, I do not believe there is someone out there for me. My life is going in a direction where having a partner will be more of a hinderance than a blessing.
I used to hope that there was. Interaction with females taught me that there was not. Women and the sociopathic bad boys whom they crave deserve each other.
@Sukaaa In my experience, all females want bad boys until the female turns 30. Women have a strong self-destructive streak and appear to be incapable of foreseeing the logical long-term consequences of their choices in male company..
Simple, there are some people who are not meant to be with someone. No matter how good they are, they may be one of the best but they are meant to be alone. They are not suited for companionships.
Their needs and wants in life are different compared to most others.
Maybe its just the kind of people that you attract maybe you need to work on yourself as a person and fulfill your needs to get a healthy and good person tell me what you think
No, it is not like that. I know who I am and how good I am. I am not looking to attract anyone, I am happy with who I am and how I am irrespective of the consequences.
I don't need that good and healthy person that you have mention. I am at peace with who I am.
Yes, there is. But that doesn't mean that you will find that someone. Unfortunately, most of life relies heavily on luck. You may or may not meet a person who wants to be with you.
What do you really believe it is all thanks to mr luck do you think the trees just grows because of luck owr organs our lives and all of the details just luck honestly i think life is know way before we even were born every for a reason thank you for answering and i believe that if we are complete we will find that person i just sometimes feel lonely sad and just want to feel loved
Aww. But you need to be careful with that, Shug. I can understand wanting to look for a father figure. But some of these older guys will take advantage of you.
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Im way too shallow piece of shit to get real relationship, real love. Im in love with looks, and nothing more. So it would be scientifically impossible to stay in love when the looks fade away.
I didn't choose what I was atracted to.
I envy those who dont have my shallow genes.
Have you ever asked why
Why what?
Just why
Why am I shallow?
Why I envy those who are not?
Because looks is the only thing that triggers sexual atraction. Without it, its just real friendship at best.
I envy those who's love lasts beyond looks. Who are atracted to personality.
Sorry for whoever or whatever hurt you
Thank you.
Do you think its going to be ok or will it all be pain
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I have made my peace with the truth. What we humans are atracted to is not a choice, unlike leading people on.
Going out with a girl or having sex with her for wrong reasons is worse than being single virgin for life. Same goes for atractive girls doing the same with me for wrong reasons, like money, pity or anothe ulterior motive.
My shallowness is biological so there is no human to blame.
A guy here told me i need a therapist should we go
That is for you to decide. I always had friends to turn to which has eliminated the need.
Okay hope the best for you enjoyed texting i guess ๐๐
Good luck to you too.
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I do believe so, but the fact of the matter is, it's not necessary that you would find them if you don't put efforts.
You have to work for it to find that someone.
I agree thank you
You are most welcome.
Just stay positive and confident in yourself.
Ok thank you โฅ๏ธ the best for you
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I've met a few women over the years who could've been "the one", but recently. I'm thinking I blew what shot I had at a successful LTR so now I'm just OK with being single. I don't think it's going to happen for me. I hope you find someone you're happy with.
I hope for you too and dont lose the hope because you are still breathing
I used to wonder about that myself. I managed to find somebody.
Ohh i am glad and i hipe the best for you two
We have been married 27 years.
Very beautiful
Modern romanticism has brain washed the entire youth.
I from India and Bollywood had introduced this unrealistic ideas of love which cause long-term effects on youth such as loneliness and narcissism.
https://youtu.be/aXu9zdcg4PsAgree can't watch the video because its in another language
You can use translator but anyways the crux i have already told you.
Didn't work I don't know why but yes i agree but dont take it so deeply soon you may experience healthy love
God has mad second half for everyone, so surely you will find your love, why you so disappointed, here on GAG are so many guys who are in search of a girl like you, only you have to take advance step
Thank you may i ask what step exactly
Of course I do, you just need to be patient.😊
Ahhh how cute ok soon soon thank you
You're welcome. :)
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I found someone for me. I have since i was 8
Wow that's amazing i hope the best for you
Thanks
You're welcome
Nope thereโs not and I just gotta deal with it
I sometimes feel it's who you attract I feel like if we are complete as a person we will for sure find somebody complete just like us but we need to work on it we need to be complete and not half a person so we attract another half and then we become attached which is not healthy Tell me what you think and thank you so much for writing
Sounds reasonable and youโre welcome
Thank you ๐
You're still so young and got plenty of time, actually more than me. Im 24 and still waiting for that someone if i haven't already met him.
The best for both of us and all the other girls i hope you do find someone who is healthy and treats you like a queen that you deserve
I found him. But Iโm a hopeless romantic and a firm believer that everyone has someone out there for them
I am gald hope the best for you
No, I do not believe there is someone out there for me. My life is going in a direction where having a partner will be more of a hinderance than a blessing.
Okay hope everything turns out for the best
I used to hope that there was.
Interaction with females taught me that there was not.
Women and the sociopathic bad boys whom they crave deserve each other.
Mm but does all woman want sociopathic bad boys
@Sukaaa
In my experience, all females want bad boys until the female turns 30.
Women have a strong self-destructive streak and appear to be incapable of foreseeing the logical long-term consequences of their choices in male company..
Ah so they are not really that logical about the whole dating thing or in other words not wise enough as their minds are constantly changing
No, I don't believe in that. I don't think that is true.
Why.
Why?
Simple, there are some people who are not meant to be with someone. No matter how good they are, they may be one of the best but they are meant to be alone. They are not suited for companionships.
Their needs and wants in life are different compared to most others.
Does this answer your question?
So you believe that you are that person
Yes, I do.
Maybe its just the kind of people that you attract maybe you need to work on yourself as a person and fulfill your needs to get a healthy and good person tell me what you think
@Sukaaa
No, it is not like that. I know who I am and how good I am. I am not looking to attract anyone, I am happy with who I am and how I am irrespective of the consequences.
I don't need that good and healthy person that you have mention. I am at peace with who I am.
This is by choice.
Okay i am glad you are ok hope the best for you thank you for sharing
@Sukaaa
Its fine. No problem.
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I think thereโs someone out there for everyone
I hope so too
I don't want kids, I want to go on roller coasters and eat cotton candy 🍭 all day.
So yeah I do hope there is someone out there for me lol 🙂
Amazing
lol thanks, well im sure there could one guy but not most...
Thank you ๐๐
I think they are there, I just haven't met them yet.
Hope you do meet them
I hope so too. I wonder how and what situation I'd be meeting that person in. Definitely something fun to think about.
Hope the best for you really
Yes, there is. But that doesn't mean that you will find that someone. Unfortunately, most of life relies heavily on luck. You may or may not meet a person who wants to be with you.
What do you really believe it is all thanks to mr luck do you think the trees just grows because of luck owr organs our lives and all of the details just luck honestly i think life is know way before we even were born every for a reason thank you for answering and i believe that if we are complete we will find that person i just sometimes feel lonely sad and just want to feel loved
Aww. But you need to be careful with that, Shug. I can understand wanting to look for a father figure. But some of these older guys will take advantage of you.
So i should put boundaries with all just to stay safe
Thank you
Yes, there is someone out there. But it will take time to stumble across them.
Most the time people find their life mates by accident. Not active looking.
Wow thank you i do agreee