When I walk pass them on the street, they ignore me, avoid me, give me dirty looks and have no interest in me.
Its not fucking fair!
There are men younger, shorter and uglier than me and they have girlfriends!
I want a girlfriend but women don't want me, they want me to suffer and die alone.
Well, see if you are going to think you are worthless then you will become worthless. Whether someone loves you or not, you should love yourself. Whether someone sees you as worthy or not you should see yourself as worthy.
These are called, self love and self worth.
You will become what you think. Don't make it as a ambition to have a girlfriend, it should never be the purpose of your life. There are lot of things you can do and achieve in life (professionally and personally). Think about your success and achievement. Having a girlfriend is not success or achievement.
Understand the real meaning of life.
From your sentence it is very clear that you are desperate and you just want a girlfriend so that you can prove to others that you are normal or something. That is very bad attitude to live your life.
All I can say learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself and know your worth and be happy. From your sentence it seems like you need a girlfriend to keep you happy.
That is not how it works.
Hate is a very strong word and an over exaggeration in my opinion I wouldn't put it this way, but unfortunately most people are shallow, so your looks, facial features and style do affect the way you're perceived and treated by others. It has been proven by studies by cognitive psychologists that pretty people tend to be perceived as kinder, more trustworthy and viewed in a more positive light due to the hallo effect. On the contrary, if you're unattractive, people tend to ignore you at best and sometimes dislike you for no apparent reason. I'm not suggesting this is the case with you and you're indeed unattractive, but maybe something is off about your personal hygiene, or way you dress etc. You could also experiment with different hairstyles and work out more
Your looks are a form of social capital, so investing in them could benefit you in the long run.
Lastly, your body language (Facial expressions, gestures, posture and head movement) can also affect the way others perceive you. Are you sure you don't come across as aloof or socially awkward?
PS: try to ignore the ladies in the comments. They have a habit of ganging up on other users for no reason, especially guys
I’m sorry you feel that way, a stranger is not going out of their way to punish you especially when you had done nothing to upset them. You are victimizing yourself to people that don’t know nothing about you.
I definitely recommend healing through therapy so you can have more pease of mind, confidence and do not assume strangers are against you.
They don’t know what’s going on with you and you don’t know what’s going on with them. Take care don’t make people or in this case women an enemy. Most strangers ignore each other unless you go out of your way to Deliberately engage conversation.
You are not alone in this frustration, There are a lot of women that want a boyfriend and there are a lot of men that want a girlfriend and the whole process is hard. No one is safe. It takes lots of Patience, time to develop that.
Have you ever tried making a move? Assuming that they hate you and want you dead just because they didn't smile at you while walking isn't really fair.
Don't base your worth on whether or not you're single. Also, look within for problems. In my experience, dating or talking to insecure guys really sucks.
You will find someone someday, but first I would listen to some of these responses and seek help. Make sure you're actually in a decent place to get into a relationship.
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u "women don't want me, they want me to suffer and die alone." You know this because they told you?
Seek help. You are paranoid in an extreme degree. That makes you dangerous.
You might end up harming someone if you won't consult a therapist.
I gather it is your prickly demeanor towards women that likely nets you zero interest.
No women is about to show interest in a complete stranger on the street. You could be a creep for all they know?
The other guys that have girlfriend's obviously put in the effort to meet them and get to know them. If you tried taking down your walls/defenses, you would likely find it easy to meet someone.
Probably a lot of dude feel that way about u too .. the odd dog or cat might chill a bit...
Buddy their practally villians.. you ve been lucky to come as far as you have.. their vantriliquest ness fucked with me for years to very very to tell the dummy from the mommy when their all one n the same... ha ha
Obviously im joking laugh , first at me then you, then them.. humor man it works
It sounds like there is maybe some hyperbole going on here or scarier even, paranoid schizophrenia. Have you ever seen a therapist?
"they ignore me, avoid me, give me dirty looks" Seriously? It's normal for strangers to ignore you. Maybe you should try meeting some women instead of dreaming of a random encounter on the street.
Dude, it's time to see a therapist. This coming from a guy that tried for fifteen years to look for a partner and had zero success. However, I haven't thought women as a whole hate me, I just don't think I will get a yes.
If you gonna be a little bitch like so, then you might be right
First off, we both know that's bullshit. Most people on earth don't truly notice each other. Secondly, you might have schizophrenia if you legit think this is really going on.
You need help for that bitter inceldom you're afflicted with
If everyone really wanted you dead, don't you think someone would have acted out to make it so
It's because today's modern women have such high ridiculous standards that if you don't meet ALL of them they won't give you the time of day.
They don't hate you they just don't know you exist.
lol, no they don't.
You sound dangerous. Seek help.
Maybe your personality isn't all that
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