A lot of things have turned to shit out there, I agree on that. But you're wrong that it's just females. You don't see it from the other side (which is stupid, because there are no 'sides' - we are not oppositional to one another.) There is still a comment to me from some guy calling me a cunt, for no good reason, and it remains, reported, but unchecked. Many of you, to be quite frank, treat us like shit. So right back at ya.
But I happen to have many male friends and/or acquaintances on here, and a husband, a father, and about three close male friends who are great, great people. If I was to base my entire opinion of the male species on the guys who call me cunts, a feminist with no sense of humour when girls are clearly being sexually harassed, and who diminish and undercut and devalue me, simply because I am female, or that I stand up to them or oppose them... then I would be doing the same as you. And I refuse to do that. Because I know what good men look and act like. I bring out the best in people. Because I listen, I don't deflect from valid concerns and criticisms, and I think for myself, not what others try to get me to think. I treat people well, and they treat people well. Is your opinion based on the dating world? Then branch out. If you can't find a single good female out there to have a simple conversation with, that potentially leads to a deep conversation, then you are potentially the issue. Talk to girls/women on an individual level. Stop lumping them into a mass. Treat them with respect, share something about yourself, don't stay on the surface, shallow shit. You'll get nowhere if you do. Eventually, you must be vulnerable if you want connection with others.
One of the issues is that girls think all/most guys are only interested in them for sex, and see their value to them, and to society, as their sexuality. (The girls are wrong on this, but it's a prevailing myth, perpetrated, and perpetuated, by some males, who do feel this way. Blame them, not just girls, for coming to the wrong conclusion. But who knows, you could be one of those very guys who just wants sex from them. Or maybe you feel slighted, dismissed. But there is more to women than dating them.) Thinking like this is just psychological laziness, feeding into your own biases, not seeing them as peers.
You will learn to appreciate women if you stop pursuing them for one purpose. Be their peers, fellow citizens, colleagues, and friends. If you can't see them as interesting, an equal, you will never have anything but an adversarial relationship to them.
Read @SomeGuyCalledTom comment here. It will help elucidate things for you.
Why I resented women in the past.
And you're correct - you're being brainwashed.
Nowadays, most men online who defend, or support, or speak up for, or just enjoy a female as a friend, or more, are labelled SIMPS. But if I support men, men's issues, a particular man with a problem on here... they have no issue with that. Talk about hypocrisy. (A SIMP spends his hard-earned money on a girl who doesn't respect him or deserve it. A SIMP is not someone who supports a female, for any reason.)
We should all treat each other well, until given reason not to do so. On an individual basis. There is nothing to be gained by hating half the world's population. You'll live a miserable life if you can't right your distorted thinking.
And P. S. I know men have legitimate complaints and issues with women. I always listen to those, if they are reasonable and constructive. But come at me/us angry, insulting, and completely unreasonable and biased, and of course we don't want to hear it.
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awww, honey, not all women are like that. honestly, i truly am not different at all from most of the men I've known except in how I look. I've only hated one man in my entire life, and he literally tried to murder me, so I think that's warranted. there are certainly some scumbag women and there are some scumbag men, but most people are mostly good most of the time. i think a lot of people - from both genders - have some bad experiences and hear about other people's bad experiences and believe that that's all there is. and when people don't look like you or sound like you and sometimes don't act like you, it's easy to think they don't think like you. but regardless of how you look or what kind of job you have, if you are kind and understanding and warm, there will be at least one woman who will love you and cherish you. i will admit, it can be offputting when men say they hate women or make any sort of generalization about them because i have been beaten and raped and hurt by men who have spoken like that and I get scared that if someone hates women, and thus hates me, he might take his anger and frustrations out on me which I obviously want to avoid. for centuries, women have been viewed as different and inferior to men and have suffered for it, so it becomes a safety reflex to avoid men who act like or say they feel women are below them. thus, i tend to avoid people who express fury at women as a whole because i need to keep myself safe. but i have never, ever, acted cold or uncouth towards someone who was nice to me. to wrap this up, i don't hate you. millions of other women don't hate you. everyone, regardless of gender, just wants to be treated with respect and warmth. if you can be patient and understand that when women (or men) are mean to you, it typically has little to do with you and is reflective of their own personal turmoil, and if you can be consistently polite, cordial, and open-minded to all people, regardless of gender, then I promise you that you will have some truly lovely experiences with women.
I can certainly understand your frustrations. The only difference between me and you is that men (while better) aren't THAT much better. So for me, it doesn't even become a gendered thing.
Most HUMANS suck, in my opinion. Most of them tend to be selfish, incredibly stupid, and destructive. I really wish people weren't, as I often go out of my way to help others, only to get bitten in the ass for it, but they are.
The thing that brings me a little bit of peace is learning to forgive people for their infinite stupidity and being grateful you're not as bad as them (if you aren't; if you are, then you have something to fix in life, now). So, in other words, I "live the change I want to see in the world," as cliche and horrible as that saying has now become.
The only way the world is ever going to get better is little by little, day by day. This culture war sh*t certainly is making things harder, and that's what the scum at the top want. Women turning into feminist pieces of sh*t, men becoming soy boys, simps, and betas, black people turning on whites, straight people fighting gays, trans people making everyone hate them... It really, truly is a culture WAR. It's not just feminist trash making society worse. It's another cliche saying, but negativity can't beat negativity. And the other side is FAR more experienced in negativity than we are. I certainly know the feeling of just wanting to check out of society. But then what? Then who's left, at the end.
No soldier. You've got to endure on, not give up, and keep fighting for a better world than THIS sh*tshow Clown World mess we're in. You're a man, not a bitch. You're not meant to just puss out and give up. Now get back out there, cadet!
The opposite of love isn't hate, it's ambivalence.
Women in our culture treat average men like dirt that's true. When I lost my high paying job I lost my wife. Women only show interest when I'm dressed in a suit driving a new car. When I wear jeans and drive my old daily driver I'm invisible. If you can't live without sex, use tinder, otherwise I'd say say avoid them, most will only use you too monkey branch to their next victim.
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I love my husband more than any person in the world, he’s a red pill man. I personally have seen how truly awful women have become. It breaks my heart to see such a divide between men and women, it’s sad to see how much men just want to love a good woman but get passed up daily because women are not in it for love anymore. I am sorry that women have changed so drastically and have become so entitled and selfish. It makes me so mad that the values I grew up with are not what I see in society now. I don’t blame men for feeling so resentful. I’m trying my hardest to educate women… but unfortunately I’m afraid my efforts fall on deaf ears.
Realize that all people are different no matter their gender. And that you might have been fed with a lot of the same pov content that your belief is that's how all of that specific gender is.
If that's not possible and you reject the idea that women are anything but what you wrote and that men are anything else as well... Then...
Keep yourself away from women.
And stick to be with guys... Don't know what else to tell you.Start chasing men... or dogs. Have you ever thought of getting a sheep? You know, the best way to shag a sheep is to do it at the edge of a cliff, that way, the sheep keeps trying to push back towards you!! More action, traction and satisfaction!! Gives new meaning to the term, "edging", too!! And, it's really not that ba-a-a-a-a-a-d.
I think it could be that way for most men and women but not all. It's just the way society is today. The way a girl is raised if she has ethics and morals, means she could be a loving person with no hate, and they are hard to find, but not impossible.
I think your hate is misdirected. You probably just hate westernized women, which really arnt even real women. Travel and date women overseas who haven't been brainwashed by feminism yet. Keep hope.
Realize that not all women are the same, and ponder a bit more on why do you think women love men selfishly, how should they love men then? Start asking yourself questions.
Sounds like you've had a lot of negative experiences with women
You could always go a deeper route.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_LittleGo see a psychiatrist.
I hate those guys also and I’m a man
You’re delusional
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