There was this person who was the sexiest man in the world for me. What I find interesting is that I never liked Asians, he was the only Asian I was so drawn to. I actually liked Swedish guys the most before meeting him.
However, I got totally mind blown by my him. I don’t know what he did to me. I loved him deeply. But on top of that I admired how attracted I was to him. That has never happened to me before or after him. He was the epitome of masculinity for me.
So, since I like evolution and genetics, I’ll explain what I know about his origins is that he is a man whose last name is the most common in the world. So, in a way, genetically he has a very “successful” male lineage, I guess his ancestors might have been irresistible to many other women, but from another part of his parent his origins trace back to my country, his ancestors left my country, about two thousand years ago.
I wonder why am I so pulled to him, might it be because his origin traces back to my country and while he is so exotic to me with his differences, yet so similar and familiar to me because we have the shared origin. So he’s not fully Asian, his origin traces back to my country. I wonder maybe that’s why I found him so irresistible.
Is that possible?
There is no logic that can fully explain how we are attracted to who ever we are. Sometimes it can involve mutual interests, looks can get your attention (no doubt) but it takes more than that to hold your interest. The shared home country may be the source of some traits you are drawn to, but it takes more than just that to be attracted.