How do I get my girlfriend to stop dressing me as a girl?

[Anonymous]

This is a very weird situation, but I have an older girlfriend, kind of a sugar mommy-type thing I guess. She lives cosplay and we go to conventions a lot. She would dress me up, do my make-up and stuff and it was fun, I didn't mind it.
But now she's start of doing it just for going out normally, she'll have all kinds of different dresses, wigs, etc for me and I feel like I can't say no.
The other day she was calling me her "girlfriend" and asking if I preferred skirts or shorts for going out casually, I'm getting a bit worried.

Is there a way to get her to stop without breaking up? Pics included for context I guess

[SunnyRS]

Try telling her how you feel about this without raising your voice and getting angry, just show your concern about it.
If she understands that is great but if she doesn't you have two choices either to go along with it or break up.

[ThomasDavid1989]

if this is all because you're paying her or whatever, then just stop payments and stop doing it

[Asker]

I'm not paying her lol she's my girlfriend

[exitseven]

Act like a man and she will treat you like a man.

[Asker]

I act like a man :(

[exitseven]

Not dressed like that you don't.

[Asker]

How does the clothes you wear effect your masculinity? I can be a man still even if I'm pretty 💅

[exitseven]

The fact that I have to explain this to you says it all.

[Asker]

Yes, I'm sure the 51 year old chronically online IT worker is the epitome of masculinity, please teach me your ways 😂

[exitseven]

@Jin-Jin I have forgotten more about manhood than you will ever learn in a dress.

[Lottifan]

Just try talking to her and explain how you feel about it to her.

[Asker]

It's a little scary, I don't want to run the only proper relationship I've had lol

[Lottifan]

I know it’s scary but you don’t want to be under her thumb all the time.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, and you look like you really hate it.

Give me a break.

[Asker]

Well, if you read you'd know that I said about the cosplay that I didn't mind it and it was fun, I'm just uncomfortable with it bleeding into my real life, but it's ok reading is difficult I get it

[Anonymous]

Don't stop her.

[Asker]

Why? Do you think she'd get mad?

[LiamJHayden]

You don't let her do it.

[Jmmmfi4]

What... the... fuck