My friend says that I'm not going out with anyone or getting any dates if I really do want to find a relationship. She says that I should be getting at least 4 dates a month but I rarely get that in a whole year. I don't try because at this point in my life I don't feel like anyone would like me. đ
You need to wait until you come to understand why someone would like you. If you can't feel that you have something to offer a woman, dating will not go well. Just know these are exceedingly difficult economic times and you will not be the only person who struggles to make a living. There might well be women out there who understand that now, so it might not be an automatic dealbreaker.
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Why are you 28 years old and don't have a car? That makes your situation virtually impossible. A 28 yar old man shold be self-sufficient and becoming established in a career. A girl is not going to date a guy who perpetually needs someone to take care of him.
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Your friend is right. Date as often as you can. There are lots if fish in the sea, but only dropping the hook a few times is not going to catch any.
Just talk to women casually, in real life, and let them propose to you if they are interested.
But lightly flirt with them.
If I found somebody I liked I used to see them every week, sometimes more.
Your friend is correct
I say as many dates as you can make time for.
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