Made plans for second date, but she hasn’t texted in 2 days?

[DavidBibs]

This is an odd one - usually if I hit it off with a woman and go on multiple dates, she texts me a few times a day or stays in touch.

I took a woman out on a date, and we planned a second one afterwards the next day. The odd thing is I have not heard from her in two days - I’m really turned off / don’t even want to go on a second date with her, I almost hope she doesn’t text me so I can just move on from her / not deal with her any more.

is this normal behavior or is this a red flag? I don’t know what to do if she texts me cause I don’t even want to speak to her any more. I wished her luck on her job interview and she didn’t say thank you or any replies, she made me feel just horrible.

[KrakenAttackin]

She is either playing games or has a bunch of guys on the hook.

[DavidBibs]

I think it’s probably the 2nd one - whenever I take out very attractive woman (or at least I perceive them to be) they fall off the radar more often than not.

Whenever I take a woman out that doesn’t look as physically attractive to me, they’re all over me. She probably gets a crazy amount of attention from guys, oh well she lost me / turned me off.

[msc545]

she could be ill. Two days is not very long.

[msc545]

thanks for mho

[Anonymous]

Why haven't you tried to text her?

[DavidBibs]

Because I was the last one to text - I usually leave that as a sign the balls in the woman’s court to hit me back up. Double texting can be misconstrued as creepy / needy or clingy in my opinion

[msc545]

If you don't hear from her you have dodged a bullet. Congratulations!

[DavidBibs]

@msc545 lol thank you for that and I agree

[In_Trance]

did you call her?

[DavidBibs]

Nah, I know a lot of people may disagree with me but I wrote her a goodbye message and blocked her - how the hell can I take a woman out on a date who ignores my texts and she told me before “I’m a bad texter” and would take half day to respond? Her behavior is uncomfortable, I’d feel like an idiot to buy her dinner and open up to her while she blows me off you know? I’d rather have a quick 30 minute text back and forth and the convos done than her taking 8-15 hours to reply to one message. She just made me feel bad so I let her go (maybe I’ll regret it maybe I won’t) it is what it is

[In_Trance]

So call her

[DavidBibs]

Yeah maybe I should have? Her behavior in general was weird afterwards. I’d feel desperate / weird to call a woman who blows my texts off all day you know? I feel like I’d come across as desperate / needy. If she was respectful with her communication I’d call her. But after her blowing my texts off or just lagging badly I felt turned off. Would you ignore or lag horribly on texting a woman you liked back?