How Do I Make Sure Women Over the Age of 30 Won't Date Me?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question because I am not open to dating a woman over the age of 30. All else equal, I am only open to dating a woman in her early or mid 20s.

[Pegases]

First and foremost, you are entitled to your preferences just like women are. When women say they want a man that is above six foot, making over 100k a year, and the laundry list of other preferences women are known to unapologetically have for the men they date, society doesn't demonize them for it in the way that most women today seem to feel entitled to demonize men for. If you don't fit the bill, then he isn't for you, plain and simple. Next, this is an odd question.. Just don't date women that are over 30. I don't see that being a tough thing to inquire about on a date, and than moving accordingly.

[WhyohWhy69]

Nobody ever said he didn’t. He’s in his 20s though. When he’s 45 and alone, he may change his tune though.

[Pegases]

@WhyohWhy69 There are several women that demonized his preference, as you literally just did here. Its very interesting that you came under my comment to shoot yourself in the foot, but thanks for proving my point. Worry about yourself, he'll be fine

[Greenbins]

Be up front about right away when you meet a girl you are considering. I don't blame you by the way

[petitedollbabee]

Live with your parents, have no drivers license, spend all your money on useless things like alcohol and drugs and designer clothes, and have a highschool maturity level. Trust me, no woman who knows her worth will want anything to do with you 🙂 which is usually women in their 30’s, as women in their 20’s are still figuring out their lives.

[Rosexøxø]

I’d assume you just focus on places exposed to a high concentration of 20 y. o. Females.

My best guess would be: Universities.

Could look into some clubs, but somewhat difficult there.

I suppose you could also try to appear younger yourself? Dress like a 20 y. o.

[OlderAndWiser]

Q. How Do I Make Sure Women Over the Age of 30 Won't Date Me?

A. Don't ask them for a date. . . DUH! Is this REALLY a question or are you just proclaiming to the world that you can get younger women?

[Shiningtempest]

@OlderAndWiser It was a genuine question.

[WhyohWhy69]

He’s in his 20s no surprise.

[AviatorTom]

Get a custom made T-shirt that says "If you're over 30 ... I ain't interested" and always wear it. Girls will get the idea.

[coachTanthony]

You can't. You just have to date them and hope for the best.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol he is entitled to reject them all he likes, he can just say no to any women over 30

[coachTanthony]

@DarkLegacy LOL it's called sarcasm

[EmyyWolf]

I , as a woman in my mid 20’s..
wouldn't date you at all LMAO 
there's ZERO muscle there. All I smell is pure estrogen coming off of you the testosterone is gone. You haven’t seen a gym in a decade! That pinky you call your D-K is no-good and pleases no one.
Trust me, you don’t have to do a single thing for women of ANY AGE to not date you  a single thing
@Shiningtempest

[WhyohWhy69]

@DarkLegacy who said he wasn’t? Why is there a comment section at all? Just make it all questions only.

[LiamJHayden]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Avicenna]

LOL, it takes two to tango, so you just don't hit on women outside your target group.

[richardcory]

I"m a bit confused. Why do you have to date women over 30? You can decline a date with anyone you don't want to date.

[WhyohWhy69]

He wants to make a point that women are useless to him after 29. He wants to upset women because he’s a loser. He’s single, too. I can’t imagine why.

[Shiningtempest]

@WhyohWhy69 I'm just not interested in dating woman over the age of 30.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Uhhhh how about you just say "I'm not interested" instead of playing games. Usually women 30 will walk tf away because no one has time for high-school bullshit?

[TooHot2Care]

Ignore her. Play more games! 😂

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Your funeral...

[TooHot2Care]

Girl, you ain’t gonna do SHIT!

[EclipsedMoonlight]

I didn't say me personally 😂 if I was going to threaten someone they would know hun. And it's called a "joke" might want to brush up on your sense of humor...

[DarkLegacy]

lol typical, this what women have to say to men who have their preferences. They have to take a slur or dig.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Where is the slur or dig?

There is the typical male twisting words to feel masculated... I said women above 30 don't like games you tell them like it is. They put their big girl pants on and walk.. seriously where is the dig or slur? Ffs get over yourself with that toxic bullshit please and thank you

[TooHot2Care]

Silly woman, I was joking with you….

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Cute

[TooHot2Care]

I know.

[Vegasrunner]

@eclipsedmoonlight You literally called his actions HS BS, and now are pretending you don't recognize the insult. This is some hard-core delusion, and lack of accountability.

[TalynMere]

@TooHot2Care Schrodinger's douchebag

[EclipsedMoonlight]

@Vegasrunner that is high school bullshit. I'm not delusional sweetheart I'm honest. It isn't gender specific. If a girl does it it's the same shit. You're a grown adult. It is pretty simple: say what you feel, and mean what you say.
Sorry you're behind on your adult maturity but I spelled it out for you. Hope that helps. Much love..

[Vegasrunner]

@eclipsedmoonlight Lol. So your saying you recognize the slur? At least that's some progress. Most women are delusional when it comes to relationships you're proving to be no different. You're advice is terrible and it shows that you don't understand women. Around 28-32 is when they become the thirstiest AKA the dirty 30's and simply telling a women that is interested I'm you isn't necessarily going to stop her from chasing. Your taking your personal out of context appearance, combining it w/ your insecurities and then spewing garbage in the form of advice.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

I respectfully disagree with you. My opinion (which is my own, and what I'd want to hear) isn't a slur or malice in anyway. Just because you are offended by my opinion doesn't make it wrong either. My opinion got the most likes so far so I guess this is a you problem. I'm 32. Not thirsty I love myself, I have no self esteem issues either. So I'm not sure why you feel the need to try to manipulate the situation and turn it into something it isn't. It's my opinion not yours, you don't have to like or accept it but to try to insult me for it shows how truly pathetic you are.

[Vegasrunner]

@eclipsedmoonlight Your slur is characterizing the author as HSih simply for not telling you what you want to hear. I don't know why u think your opinion is "wrong" It's not. It's simply not applicable. I'm very happy other people like your opinion and because I realize how important it is to manage female insecurity. It also only proves thar women typically give dog shit relationship advice. I respectfully disagree w/ you not having "esteem issues" because if you didn't you wouldn't feel the need to pretend that I'm "offended" without any evidence to the fact. You're transferring your own feelings of being offended and attempting to attribute it to me eventhough it never came up. It also shows how your "opinion" is based more on emotion vs logic which is a terrible way for a man to operate. I responded because this young man has a serious question and I don't want him mislead by female delusion like the advice you're given. He will make his own decisions but doesn't he deserve the right to see a problem from a general POV vs a personal one like you're giving? I can't help you of you "feel" insulted but it just goes to show that women value emotion over logic in a lot of their decision making.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Again, I respect your opinion but I'm not changing mine. The asker can decide for himself.
Everyone has their own way of how the perceive certain aspects of life. How they cope, how they handle things I gave my answer in order to help someone. You are trolling for only God knows why. I can give my opinion freely as can you. We don't have agree that's the beauty of apps like this. But trying to attack my character? You should seriously grow up. You aren't always right either, I know that's a hard pill to swallow but toughen up buttercup it will be okay. Now go troll someone else with your bias self. Thanks

[WhyohWhy69]

@TooHot2Care no but time will to you. I see it all the time. Lololol

[Vegasrunner]

@eclipsedmoonlight Yes, and if the answer decides to make a good decision then I'm saying he should ignore your advice because it is not designed to help him rather designed to make u feel better. Do u not recognize the irony in the fact that you literally began by attacking the author and now are attempting to play the victim role? Sound like your advice of growing up is something that you should listen to as your responses are the only immature part of this conversation.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

@Vegasrunner I'm Done talking to your ignorant self. I am not a victim, I am not whatever else you say. Lol ffs you're all spaz over me to tell a grown man to stop playing little kid games and be a man and just say "I'm not interested" you're SERIOUSLY A JOKE. Get a life. Just because I'm not agreeing with you? Good lord.

[Vegasrunner]

@eclipsedmoonlight Lol, tell yourself whatever helps u through your below average life. This is a terrific example of female delusion. It was ok when u were attacking the author, but now your feelings are all hurt for being called out on it. The only joke in this conversation is you. Provide one advantage to the author of taking your dumb ass advice? Don't worry I'll wait.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

@Vegasrunner my dumb advice will tell the women I'm not interested no games, no bullshit just like every other comment is doing below me. Yet you wanna have a go at me because you're a miserable man. I really don't care what you think about me. You're nothing to me you're personality is absolute garbage I'm sure the looks match. Get a life and don't worry about mine.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

Also I'm a nurse, my life isn't below average thanks.

[TooHot2Care]

Not even Risk? Risk is lit.

[msc545]

Announce your age preference to every woman you meet, and I guarantee that NONE of them will date you.

[DermalPunch]

He's getting t-shirts made.

[msc545]

@DermalPunch makes sernse

[Screenwriter]

@DermalPunch I think that solves most of his problem.

[msc545]

I certainly hope so

[TenderFantasy]

Just state that you don't want it on the dating app. Problem solved. If you meet someone nice and pretty, but she is over your age limit, then just make excuse to not see her. Simple as that! I hope this wasn't a serious question but if it is, damn. Good luck when you're 40.

[snowboarder720]

That’s very stereotypical thinking of you to think a woman can be judged by her age.
This is very hippo critical of you to judge a woman a few years older than you but don’t expect young women to judge you the same way. You’re calling yourself out.

[OfMiceandMen]

If you are on a dating app, then you can put those types of filters/preferences in your profile.

If you are out and about, then I am sure you can likely tell the difference between someone who is 30 years and older compared to early to mid 20's.

[DermalPunch]

Not necessarily. Some women look much younger than their actual age.

[OfMiceandMen]

@DermalPunch For sure, but most of the time you can tell by how they behave and their friends. If they are in and around the 30 mark you can always bring it up in conversation.

[DermalPunch]

Well anyway. I think he will just go for the t shirts and bumper stickers. We solved his serious problem!!

[OfMiceandMen]

@DermalPunch LOL that would certainly do it!

[WhyohWhy69]

I hang out with people I like. Doesn’t matter the age. In high school one of my best friends was in her 70s.

[Anonymous]

I , as a woman in my mid 20’s..

wouldn't date you at all LMAO 😂🖕

there's ZERO muscle there. All I smell is pure estrogen coming off of you 🤡 the testosterone is gone. You haven’t seen a gym in a decade! That pinky you call your D-K is no-good and pleases no one.

Trust me, you don’t have to do a single thing for women of ANY AGE to not date you 😂😂😂😂😂 a single thing

[Screenwriter]

Say "no" when they ask you out and don't ask any of them out. Don't act interested in any women who seem out of your age range. But otherwise, if women express interest in you, there's not much you can do about it, except discourage them.

[Nikki1989]

Have it tattooed on your forehead if it means that much to you.

[Screenwriter]

y'all are killin' me. Look, I might have a heart attack laughing at these answers.. I can't stop!

[Gloree]

are you like as handsome as brad pitt or what? like do women fall all over you or something. cause this question is the most stupid I ever saw. from what I know, guys are the chasers or hunters not the other way around. girls or women barely make the ist move. so stop trolling.

[Adaeva]

It is you choice; it is not their choice if you are not willing. You can be certain by choosing not to date women over age 30.

[DizzyDesii]

Just simply turn down their offer. I also only date people in their 20s while im in my 20s. It ain't that hard to say “not interested”

[melanieeeB]

Uhm be open and say that you're not interested in women above 30

[DermalPunch]

Why Don't you have a few t-shirts made and wear them in public.

[DermalPunch]

If you have a car or some other sort of motor vehicle, you could get decals or bumper stickers made as well. Just curious... will this requirement continue into your 30s?

[DermalPunch]

I'm here to help 🤗🫂

[EclipsedMoonlight]

😂😂😂😂

[DermalPunch]

@EclipsedMoonlight I hate to see people suffer.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

@DermalPunch ikr! It's heartbreaking

[Lionman95]

Tell them if they approach you. Or you write it in your dating profile. I don´t think there is a behavior that makes older women avoid you and only attracts younger women.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You don't have to do anything. Just given the fact that you think women in their 30s are too old, none of them will be interested in you anyway.
They're looking for men, not boys

[genericname85]

you ask them how old they are before you date?

[WhyohWhy69]

That may change as you get older though. Stop putting women over 30 down. I can understand wanting to date someone younger than you. With the way you’re going though, you’ll likely be alone.

[Vegasrunner]

@WhyohWhy69 By having standards he'll be alone? Why?

[WhyohWhy69]

@Vegasrunner yeah most people who have successful relationship are within 10 years of each other. I see men who say the said the same thing. Now they beg strangers to sit with them at their death bed.

[WhyohWhy69]

*Sorry- I see men who said the same thing*

[Shiningtempest]

@WhyohWhy69 I’d rather be a bachelor than be open to dating a woman over the age of 30.

[WhyohWhy69]

That’s okay. There are plenty of men who feel otherwise. I wouldn’t ever commit to a guy who wouldn’t love me as I age. Then again, I wouldn’t think of loving a man who was like you. And no you likely don’t like being single.

[WhyohWhy69]

Okay did you not read what I said. You’re 27. When you’re 55, you’ll eat a 30 year old’s ass.

[WhyohWhy69]

@Vegasrunner I love how red pill dudes all sound the same, come up with the same overused words. Lol weak beta.

[Shiningtempest]

@WhyohWhy69 I am willing to end up being alone to follow my self-imposed dating rule.

[Pegases]

So much for "Nobody ever said he didn’t." huh. Clown. smh

[Vegasrunner]

@WhyohWhy69 what does any of what you just said have to do w/ thos man having standards?

[andreasderjuengere]

That's really easy - you simply don't agree to ''date'' them.

[Shiningtempest]

@andreasderjuengere I was asking about other things I can do so a woman over the age of 30 will never date me.

[andreasderjuengere]

Why would you put effort in letting them know your -insignificant?- point of view?
Just don't do it; and practice some tolerance otherwise.

[Shiningtempest]

@andreasderjuengere It's a significant point of view for me because I am only comfortable dating a woman in her early to mid 20s. Thus, I won't practice tolerance.

[rosemilk]

uh you make sure you ask their age? ? moron lol no one is forcing you to date someone over 30...

[Smashingdoozy]

Weird. Have you considered asking for their age and um perhaps just not dating them if it's above what you want? Just an idea...

[ChiTown33]

Ask for her birth certificate? Honestly if you ask I don't think you have to worry about her age anymore, or her trying to date you for that matter.😂

[RockyHammock]

Set age limits on dating apps. If meeting in person ask their age, or wait for them to ask you then say you're unemployed.

[Screenwriter]

ahahahahahahahahaha!!!

[Shiningtempest]

@rockyhammock Thank you for the wise suggestion. :)

[LittleSally]

Stay immature. That will clear anyone over 23 for ya.

[QuietVerbena]

Tell them you’re not interested if they hit on you

[katiesmuff]

I'm not sure you could get women of any age to date you.

[Paulalove98]

Just be clear and politely say you're not interested?

[Vegasrunner]

There are some great examples of female delusion in these comments. Notice how women's advice to men is always about why men should make their deceions based on female felling.

[bamesjond0069]

Step 1 have sex with them

Step 2 block them on socials and block phone number

This is the best way to let them know you're not interested in dating them.

[zagor]

Easy, don't ask them. And if they ask, decline politely. I'm not sure how this is difficult...

[MysteriousDarkness]

Just don't date women that are older than you. If you don't agree to dating them then they can't date you. Nothing more needs to be done.

[Massageman]

Um, just a hot in the dark here, say no if they ask YOU, and for your part , don't ask THEM!

[OfDeath]

What happens in 5 years if you date and start a relationship with a woman who is 25?

[DarkLegacy]

Just say no to the, i also don't want women over 30

[David4358]

great news.. you can tell them you are not interested

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Ummm ok? Just tell them that you're not interested.

[nawtee_me]

Just don’t ask them out or accept a date with them. It really is very simple. Just say no

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Say no or just avoid them. It's not that difficult.

[jimmy2]

Well at 27 you are there
. There nothing wrong with 30 years old crap try a 99 year old woman

[Shiningtempest]

@jimmy2 I’d rather be a bachelor than date a woman I’m not attracted to.

[Monalisa77]

Even if she looks young? I dont look my age

[Pegases]

Appearance is the main reason most men prefer younger women. So If you take are of yourself and don't look your age, you'll be fine.

[es20490446e]

I would simply say that I'm not interested.

[NotTacocaT6969]

You just have to not date a woman who’s over 30…

[hIopinionated_]

Early 20s? You’re in your late 20s creep

[lightbulb27]

have a girlfriend/wife.

[fonduegirl]

It depends on your reasons.

[cth96190]

Simple.
Do not approach them.

[Sarah2023]

Why is this even a question?

[Iron_Man]

Are you that picky?

[LiamJHayden]

Umm, don't go out on dates with them.

[peedy]

Well thats easy its your choice so dont date them

[Chthou95]

Who said you had to? Bro

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

But why?

[Reem12345reem]

don't

[Fuentes]

Tell them lol

[In_Trance]

you say no

[Jltakk]

Just say no to them.