Going on a date heels or flats?

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DaveJord Follow
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I would suggest you reconsider your life choices before worrying about your shoes.

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  whatchu mean ‘
  
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Boomchakalaca Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24 , mho 36%

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Flats. It tones down the whole look, if u wore heels u may look like a hooker U could also wear a jacket to tone it down a bit.

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- Boomchakalaca
  
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  That is going based on that photo: crop top with cleavage and shorts
  
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- Asker
  
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  hooker?
  
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- Boomchakalaca
  
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  Correct
  
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DancingQueen16 Follow
Yoda Age: 22

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If it was me I'd wear flats because I don't know how to walk in heels plus I'm pretty clumsy

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- Asker
  
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  i love heels but thanks for the opinion
  
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InfluencerMaster Age: 71

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Where are you going? What activities will you be doing?

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- Asker
  
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  dinner than his house
  
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- u
  
  OlderAndWiser
  
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  You want to make your best impression, right? Heels would look mas elegante!
  
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- Asker
  
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  i think i did we ended up in his bed
  
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- u
  
  OlderAndWiser
  
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  Mission accomplished?
  
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- Asker
  
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  yes. lol
  
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InfluencerMaster Age: 59

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Dressed like the picture... heels. If you're doing something more casual, flats.

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  the pic was my fit
  
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Wear whatever you want to wear that is appropriate for the occasion. If your date doesn't like it, they are probably not the person for you.

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  thanks
  
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TonyMetal___86 Follow
Guru Age: 40

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Do you think that someone would really cares if you go flat or in heels when they see you wearing something like that, whole legs are visible, boobs are going to pop out, short crop top, what else 🤣🤣

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Master Age: 33

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Most guys would like the respect of a girl going to some effort in her appearance for a date with him and heels are dressier than flats.

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OfMiceandMen Follow
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I would say flats, as you have a casual outfit on.

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Verthj Follow
Xper 2 Age: 27

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Can I ask you why girls do this? Dress like that. Why would you even want to wear that? Men will just look at you like a piece of meat unless you want that.

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- Asker
  
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  I wanted sex
  
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Anonymous
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I can't tell you which to wear. But I don't think you should wear that on first date unless it's just going to his apartment. And you also look like a hooker that is probably in the streets.

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Sparkie460 Follow
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Wear whatever you will be more comfortable in wherever you are going on the date

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- Asker
  
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  heels
  
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- Sparkie460
  
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  If that's what you'd be comfortable in then go for it
  
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_Just_A_girl_ Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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heel so u take an eye out if someones too frisky. Jk. Do you whatever matches.

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soe11 Follow
Guru Age: 55

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My genuine advice is go with heels above outfits.
Fingers crossed

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gag37627 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 30

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Fake age? Cuz you look like you are in your 30s and trying hard to look younger

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- Asker
  
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  im 14 lol
  
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- gag37627
  
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  Sorry you aren't having a childhood to remember
  
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- Asker
  
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  Whatchu mean?
  
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- gag37627
  
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  🥱🥱
  
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- Asker
  
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  what?
  
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mommymommymommy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 37

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Depends on what he likes, not us. Ultimately though, it's what YOU feel the best in

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Anonymous
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Heels if you're still shorter than him with them on. Men have fragile egos.

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- Asker
  
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  i was his 6ft 4
  
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Yellovv Follow
Guru Age: 33

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Wear open toe high heels, so that will show off your pretty feet so well..

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Nikki1989 Follow
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I prefer heels for going out.

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- Asker
  
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  me too
  
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Static_In_The_Attic Follow
Master Age: 44 , mho 40%

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One heel & one flat.

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DevikaButts95 Follow
Guru Age: 31 , mho 35%

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Heels = excuse to get your feet rubbed so... Lmao.

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Spade_01 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 25

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More clothes.

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- Asker
  
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  huh?
  
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DryGermanGuy Follow
Master Age: 47 , mho 33%

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Above all, in PANTS.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Flats or wedges. Other Heels are overkill

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- Asker
  
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  really?
  
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TacosRAwesome Follow
Master Age: 36

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Depends on where the date is.

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- Asker
  
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  it was too olive garden than his house i used heels
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Why even bother dressed like that at all

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- Asker
  
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  Whatchu mean?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I would just leave if someone came in dressed like that. Point blank
  
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KatherineJ Follow
Master Age: 43

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It really depends on the date and the outfit.

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Paulychicagoluv Follow
Xper 7 Age: 47

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Either one you want

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- Asker
  
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  okay
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  Your thoughts
  
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- Asker
  
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  heels
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  Why is that?
  
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- Asker
  
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  i feel sexy is heels
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  Well do that then if it's what you prefer and feel comfortable in
  
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- Asker
  
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  i will thanks
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  You're welcome. I'm sure you will look very nice in them
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  So tired right now
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  How did it go?
  
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- Asker
  
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  good (: ended up in his bed
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  Sounds like fun
  
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- Asker
  
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  was kinda expecting him to be bigger
  
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- Paulychicagoluv
  
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  You can add if you'd like to discuss that
  
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HippieVeganJewslim Follow
Yoda Age: 29

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488 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Flats. High-heeled shoes are toxic.

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Wise4myage Follow
Master Age: 24

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Heels with that outfit, lol.

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Anonymous
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Fresh pair of J's.

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- Asker
  
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  i don’t have new ones
jjj101010 Follow
Guru Age: 34

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Heels r more attractive, r they big heels?

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- Asker
  
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  yes.
  
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- jjj101010
  
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  Do u know what the date is going to be
  
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Anonymous
(36-45)

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Riiiiiiiiiiiiight. Nice try catfish.

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Cheerfull009 Follow
Yoda Age: 29

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I prefer, flat

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riverrat3 Follow
Yoda Age: 75

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Nothing flat about you

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MementoMori777 Follow
Guru Age: 25

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Sneakers?

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Anonymous
(25-29)

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Depends upon your height

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LavLavLuv Follow
Master Age: 27

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1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Heels

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy Follow
Master Age: 40

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Both are fine.

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Preeti161101 Follow
Yoda Age: 36

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No heels 👠

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CT_CD Follow
Master Age: 30

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Flats

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Xper 3 Age: 37

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Flats

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- BrookeS
  
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  Why?
  
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Anonymous
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Flats

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