How would you like to be confessed to about someone liking you?

[Radhika_]

[HighValue]

I'd rather her just tell me straight up. No dropping hints or anything like that.

[Spade_01]

Straight up, face to face.

[Spade_01]

Thank you.

[Radhika_]

You're welcome 😊

[jennifer_bloom]

I would want a guy to show his interest by displaying appreciation for me and taking care of my feelings. If he tells a joke or smiles when he sees me or asks me questions about myself, I’d feel appreciated.

[Pinay_ako]

Tell me in my face. Don’t be shy, I won’t bite unless you like 🤣

[SueShe]

I would not like it because it would put me in an uncomfortable situation. I would not see that person under the same light anymore and I would probably have to either behave differently or to avoid that person.

I am the kind of person that tries at all costs to be the center of attention and will walk miles and make a detour to avoid that kind of situation.

If someone would start to tell me something like that, I would stop that person from speaking further because it makes me uneasy.

Since I am not interested in dating, I would have to reject that person and that is never a nice thing to do. I have never felt comfortable doing it but what has to be done must be done and I always feel bad afterwards.

Best if such gossip never reach my ears. That will avoid a lot of issues for both that person and for me.

[mobiusforniner]

Fair enough, but from your experience, can you feel when someone is in love with you, and what do you do when you know?

[SueShe]

@mobiusforniner I never really paid attention to anyone having feelings and I would say that I am bad at reading between the lines. I don't think I would feel if someone was in love simply because I would probably take my distance if anyone gets too close.

What I would do? I would tell that person that I am not interested and hope that he would understand and not insist.

[mobiusforniner]

So, I imagine by necessity, you have no close relationships with men, lest your heart be always broken.

[SueShe]

@mobiusforniner That is correct, I do not have any close relationships with men (nor with women).

[mobiusforniner]

So, how do you satisfy your sexual desire? Do you engage in hook ups? Or just plain abstinence? I ask this, not to be invasive of course, but because I fell for a woman who, like you, was also not interested in relationships. A lot of guys become attached after sex. I became emotionally and physically attached to her and when I declared my feelings to her, she flat out ghosted me and disappeared.

[SueShe]

@mobiusforniner I don't have any sexual desires because I am putting those on hold. Those are not important in my life because I do prioritize my education over my hormones.

Targeted yoga exercises, meditation and an adapted diet allow me to bypass any sexual need. I am totally abstinent and not missing anything.

[mobiusforniner]

@SueShe Fair enough. Thanks for your candid response.

[AaronKrieger]

Be upfront like asking if the person is dating someone or if they want to hangout. If you go the subtle route, then stop doing it if the person does not reciprocate it after a few tries. If you continue it after that, then it gets very annoying, as it's drawn out

[Agape93]

Either tell me face to face or don't make it known. But regardless I don't like it because 9/10 when someone does, they are either unknown to me, they treat me and my loved ones with disrespect or both

[serious]

Well, if they like me then they should just tell me straight up. Be frank and honest. No indirect sentence and absolutely no mind games otherwise that person will be out of my life.

Simple.

[serious]

@radhika_

Hello fellow Indian. Nice to meet you and welcome to the site.

[mobiusforniner]

Sorry man, but from my experience, Indian women are the QUEENS for mind games. The one I dated, shit man, I had to know how to play 4 dimensional mind chess. And even then it still ended in heartbreak.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I would them to do it for the sake of finding closure. I think just crushing on somebody is horrible.

[that1guy19]

Just come out and say it when it feels right. Nothing worse than getting mixed signals or just assuming they are into you.

[andreasderjuengere]

From my side: No ''confession'' is required... or even wanted.

''We'' will figure it out in interaction over a period of time.

[Tstrbrainer]

If you are planning to tell someone, better say it face to face.

[HowardB]

It happened to me a few times. The best time was when I was about to leave the gym and this tall Colombian with a big you know what pulled up on me in the parking lot. I seen her but never talked to her in the gym

[TheSpaceGnome]

I prefer women who just say "I love you" when they feel that way.

[Rizwan_khan]

There are 2 ways
1 . Go and ask him or face to face
2 . Tell their near friend to their feelings so you friend can convey the message.

[AdithyaR]

Honestly I'd prefer they don't tell me cause I wouldn't believe them.

[genericname85]

doesn't matter really. main thing is that she does it.

[Aairs]

Confessed to?
It's not like she burnt my house or damaged my car. Or did she?

[David4358]

I guess it depends on the person, but either way I would probably want to know

[Anonymous]

Any way that is comfortable to her. But I would like her to make me feel it first. Otherwise it just comes off as narcissism.

[shades777]

I've done it twice and it backfired both times, so now I date who likes me.

[Anonymous]

Girls never say "I like you". I understand it when they give blowjob

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've had lots of women say they love me, even ones who barely know me, if anything they say it way too soon most of the time just to be cute sounding, it's confusing af and there really needs to be some effort put in to actually thinking before saying something. They pass that phrase around like it's free.

Unfortunately they also do the same with blowjobs, wouldn't touch those std factory women if you paid me.

[In_Trance]

straight up; face to face

[chicken_nugget24]

I don't understand sorry

[RoastedToast]

A written letter via owl delivery... Pfft muggles

[TheSpaceGnome]

Any woman who has a mail delivery owl gets a shitload of extra points in my opinion.

[Usernamestinks]

Yes, especially nowadays

[Iron_Man]

Yeah when I was single

[jamesgoldman]

Outright truth